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ARTArticleLoving Yourself, Loving Your ChildrenThink about this for a moment: Is it really possible to love your children without loving yourself, or to love yourself without loving your children?
The answer is no.
If you are ignoring yourself to take care of your children, this is not loving to your children or to yourself. While being ...ARTArticleMARRIAGE ADVICE: You're With Your Perfect TeacherIt’s a constant and ongoing battle in your marriage. You like to have things laid out and to be prepared for what’s coming. He doesn’t plan at all. You know you’d relax if only he’d be a little more focused, and then you could stop having these arguments. How ...ARTArticleMisandry: The Hatred Of Men As A SexI’m sorry mama! I never meant to hurt you! I never meant to make you cry but tonight I’m cleaning out my closet. n—lyrics to Eminem’s “Cleaning Out My Closet (I’m Sorry, Mama)”
Eminem went where no son has publicly gone before—or is allowed to go—in attacking his mother. In this society, it is ...ARTArticleMother's Day Without MomYou can tell where you are in your life by how you celebrate Mother's Day. If you are making a card in crayon, you're at the start of your Mother's Days. If you are borrowing the keys to the car, you're in the teen years. When you forget and get that "I'm not hurt, just disappointed" call from your dad, you're probably in your 20s. When you bring home that special girl on Mother's day, you're just asking for trouble. But when that special girl becomes your wife and you bring your first-bo
over to your mom's house, that's a truly special Mother's Day.ARTArticleMoving Beyond Codependency: Saving Your MarriageI have counseled couples for almost 40 years, and it still thrills me when a couple, especially a couple with children, choose to work on their troubled marriage instead of leave it. It is my experience that when two people really want to save their marriage, they can. Even if one person wants ...ARTArticleMy Son's DeploymentOne of the most difficult struggles in life for a parent is the struggle that occurs when the parent is attempting to keep their child safe and the child is attempting to explore the world and find their place in it, often times not in the safest manner. n
A discussion of Inside Out cannot ...ARTArticleMy Teenager Is Failing! What Did I Do Wrong!I am an holistic life coach. A great deal of my work is with students who are about to fail their school year or with young adults now living at home, playing video games all day,and who may have dropped out. So maybe it’s best to say that I am a turn-your-life-around coach.
Each time I meet with their parents, the title of this article is the unspoken question in each of their minds, followed by what I imagine is even harsher versions of inner self-flagellation.rARTArticleOut of Work? Look Beyond Your Fear!Career change becomes a natural choice for many at some point in life, but it's an entirely different situation when you're forced to make a change, while the U.S. jobless rate is hovering at over 8 percent and you're part of that statistic.ARTArticleOutdoor Physical Activity for Kids vs Video Games: 6 Tips to Creating the BalanceWhen is playing video games unhealthy? How long is too long to be in front of a video game or television? How do you create the balance between video games and fresh air? Your schedule is full already with after school activities and music lessons; where can you find the time to spend outside doing some fun physical activities with your kids?ARTArticleParenting - Roots & WingsI’m sure many of you have heard that old Hallmark card adage that goes something like this: Parents give their children two great gifts---one is roots, the other is wings. This is what I address in this article.
As parents, we pray for our children’s safety, health and happiness. We do ...ARTArticleParenting is a Moving Target in the Teen YearsTrying to understand how to help your teen in a world that is constantly changing is like trying to hit a target that constantly moves. Just when your aim is right on target -- your kids change. Knowing how to set the right standards and enforce the right discipline can be overwhelming, and may seem impossible.
The key to success in this arena lies in learning to adapt your parenting style to be more fluid, more accessible.
As your child develops into a teen, you no longer have the luxury of making demands and expecting everything to remain the same.ARTArticleParenting: Prescribing the SymptomRebecca was struggling with 3 year old Kevin's screaming. Whenever someone didn't do what he wanted, he screamed and screamed, hoping to get his way. Rebecca had tried many different things to get Kevin to stop screaming, such as time outs, telling him to use his words, walking away and ignoring ...ARTArticleParents: Letting Go Of GuiltHow are your children doing? If they are doing well, then I'm sure you feel good about your parenting. If they are not doing well, what are you telling yourself about your parenting?
"I should have been there for them more."
"I should have been harder/easier on them."
"I should have been a ...ARTArticlePower Struggles - Being Right or Being LovingMandy and Evan consulted with me for couple’s counseling because they were always bickering. Every little thing seemed to become an issue between them. They loved each other very much, but the bickering was certainly getting in the way of enjoying each other.
I ask Mandy and Evan to come ...ARTArticleR-E-S-P-E-C-T: 25 Ways To Show ItPermissions:
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Convicted criminals report that their violent behavior was
caused by perceived disrespect.*
Everyone wants to be treated with respect, but respect means
different things to different people.ARTArticleRELATIONSHIP ADVICE: Honey or VinegarI would guess you’ve heard the old saying, “you’ll catch more bees with honey than with vinegar”. Of course that makes sense, and you’d never DREAM of trying to attract a bee with vinegar, would you? So why is it that so many of us behave as though nagging, ...ARTArticleRelationship Success: What is a REALationship?What is a REALationship?
A REALationship is one in which you have openness, honesty, integrity, individuality, growth, passion, and intimacy. This begins with the relationship you have with yourself.
Start by answering the following:
• Do you know and live your life purpose?
• Do you know and live by your core values?
• Do you know the “deal-makers” and “deal-breakers” in
your life?
It is easy to march to the beat of other’s drums or perhaps to go along with the trends of the masses.ARTArticleRelationships: Conflict Resolution Without WordsIn the last few decades, partners have spent countless hours trying to “work out problems.” Yet over and over again they often come up against a major roadblock: they just don’t see things the same way. No matter how long they talk and how hard they try, neither ends up feeling ...ARTArticleRelationships: Mysteries Of AttractionWe are attracted to each other at our common level of woundedness and our common level of health.
What does this mean?
For example, Jackson, a very attractive man in his early 50s, had been married three times and had been in many relationships. He consulted with me because he was tired of ...ARTArticleRelationships: Prescribing the Symptom"Sam whines and complains to me a lot, and then expects me to be turned on to him and make love with him. When I don’t want to, he gets angry," said Jackie in our first telephone counseling session. "I have become more and more shut down. I don't want our marriage to end, but if we keep going ...ARTArticleReuniting With Your Beloved Is Never This Easy If You Know Which Emotional Hot Buttons To Push!Have you had a relationship with a man that has unfortunately always been on the on-and-off track? Wanting him back is a completely normal reaction to a breakup, regardless of whether the feelings come right away, or over time. Here are some proactive tips for turning your ex to be in love with you again and even find you more attractive than before.ARTArticleRiding the Ride: How to Recognize and Manage Your Emotions Through DivorceSome decisions are really easy to make - What will I have for breakfast? What TV show do I want to watch? What time do I need to get up in the morning? Other decisions, like whether or not divorce is the correct path for you to take, can be agonizing.
Let's begin by focusing on the person who is contemplating whether or not to divorce - the leaver.ARTArticleSelf-Judgment and Sexual AddictionHarv called me for phone consultations because his wife, Nancy, threatened to leave him if he did not get some help.
"I must be all messed up with my sexuality. I constantly want sex with my wife and she is fed up with it. When she won't have sex with me I'm angry and sullen. I love my wife ...ARTArticleSetting Boundaries With Your Adult Children: Five Ways God Wants You To Parent Your Adult ChildAre you wondering about setting boundaries with your adult children? Parenting your adult child sounds like an oxymoron. The two really shouldn't go together, but they often do. There is an epidemic of children eighteen years and older (even much older) that still require involvement from their parents in their lives and want support in the form of a place to live, money, training, and emotional energy. This requires a plan and an understanding of the ways adult children should be parented. Here are five ways God wants you to parent your adult child:ARTArticleShake Hands And Call It A Year - Avoid Holiday-Related Relationship IssuesI made it.
This graying heap of miserliness managed to survive yet another horribly happy holiday season without having to sing songs about some red-nosed freak of nature or some cute baby born in a cold barn to poor parents.ARTArticleShame on You“What are you thinking? Haven’t we talked about this before?”
My seven-year-old son looked down at the food that had just spilled on the kitchen floor.
He stood statue-still, as children often do after an accident. The words and tone I’d used were having their impact. He braced himself to ...ARTArticleSigns Your Relationship Needs Professional HelpRelationships aren't easy and all relationships have rough spots, disagreements, and adjustments. That said, there are times you need to get help to work things out. Here are seven signs your relationship needs professional help:
1. You have the same argument over and over that isn't resolved. The good news is that counseling might be short if you address the source before it affects other areas of your relationship and resentments grow.ARTArticleSix Secrets Of Successful Russian Dating And MarriageMany men like Russian girls and many are dating them online. How can you have successful dating online and a happy marriage? Read through the six secrets, also the keys to successful date with your dream soul mate.
Be Devoted to your dream Russian briderARTArticleSix Tips To Strengthen Your Marriage SexuallySexual intimacy is as important for the health and vitality of the marriage relationship as is emotional closeness and spiritual connection. Sexual nourishment that feeds both husband and wife is the dessert of married life.
Strengthening your marriage intimately--emotionally, spiritually and sexually--is one of the most important efforts in which you can put your time and energy.
So-called desire discrepancies between husband and wife can be a thing of the past, as couples come to understand the intricacies of intimacy and mutual sexual fulfillment.ARTArticleSMART Goals“People don’t plan to fail; sometimes they just fail to plan.”
One of the major steps of Stress-less Success is to the create goals that reinforce the vision you created in the first step. The most effective method of goal-setting that I know is the SMART Goals model. SMART is an acronym for:
Specific
Measurable
Aligned and Action-orientedr
Realistic
Timed and Towards Your Vision
Starting with Specific, know that the more specific or defined you can get with your goals the better the results you will have.