A Soul Without Purpose: An Undisputed Truth
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I appreciate Ed's viewpoint on not wanting to "elevate" Cho's name, and I gave his request some serious thought. But for reasons that I believe will become ever more clear in the coming months, I prefer to stick with "The Cho Factor" as a series title. Using Cho's name is not meant to elevate him or his actions. It is meant only to be symbolic in the sense that his depravity gives us a clue into some of Western society's nastiest endemic problems. To write off Seung-Hui Cho as an evil person is to oversimplify the underlying complex societal issues involved. It is an undisputed truth that Cho's actions were evil, assuming that one defines evil as wicked or immoral. But I believe we are rationally obliged to look deeper into this mindless massacre to find the cause of Cho's wicked actions. Chaos theory tells us that everything in the universe has an effect on everything else. And, as I said, the Virginia Tech tragedy was not an isolated, random incident. Like all consequences, it was preceded by a cause.nnFrom Voice of Sanity reader J.G:nnWould you be willing to change the name of your factor? I agree with the opening of [your] discussion, open-minded debate and exploring our beliefs. ... But my original request remains: Would you please be willing to change the name of "The Cho Factor"? I think that on some level you raise Mr. Cho by including his name. ... Thanks in advance for considering my request.
No explanation needed. J.G.'s words are very clear. In the next installment of this series, we'll take a look at Cho's profile and see if anyone was "looking out for the kid behind the gun." Finally, because I am a longtime believe in the power of understatement, I will end today's installment with the words of Voice of Sanity reader Ginger, who wrote the briefest e-mail I received about Seung-Hui Cho: A lost and wounded heart ... a soul without purpose. In Installment III, we'll cut right to the chase and begin examining the specific causes of Cho's madness. It's going to get pretty bumpy, so I hope you'll continue to keep an open mind toward what I have to say - because Cho's seemingly senseless violence can teach us a lot about our society, about life, about human nature, and, yes, about ourselves. About how we got to where we are, and where we're headed.Unfortunately, we are a society that is entirely too busy. We all look for the fastest way to slap on a fresh coat of paint. Out of sight ... out of mind. We don't have time to think about how a student could arrive in a position where he felt he was forced to murder innocent people. In most instances of campus violence, I see kids who we - parents, teachers, classmates - failed. Somewhere in these kids' lives we missed critical opportunities. Opportunities to listen. Opportunities to understand. Opportunities that could have saved lives. The solution is not a fresh coat of false security. More rent-a-cops and metal detectors may make us feel safer ... and on occasion actually protect us. But who's looking out for the kid behind the gun? We have to find a way to identify the kids who are silently screaming for our attention. Then we have to listen - with an open heart and an open mind - to what they are dying for us to hear.
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