***Depression: What It Is and What to Do about It
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- Psychotherapy: Exploring one’s beliefs and ways of thinking, and learning new ways of thinking and behaving, with the guidance of a professional.
- Self-help: Exploring one’s beliefs and ways of thinking on one’s own.
- Medication: Altering one’s brain chemistry by taking antidepressant medication.
- The patient’s depression is severe.
- The patient has suffered at least two previous depressive episodes.
- There is a family history of depression.
- The patient asks for medication only and refuses psychotherapy.
- Identify your risk factors and be aware of where you are vulnerable. Each of us has unique risk factors, such as things we were taught in our families of origin, values we have learned, and the presence or absence of a family history of depression. Anything that has been learned can be unlea ed and replaced with something healthier.
- Learn to manage stress. You can learn proven techniques for calming and relaxing yourself. Consider taking a stress management class or buying a set of relaxation tapes.
- Learn problem-solving skills. Many people who develop depression never learned problem-solving skills. They need to develop the ability to see problems from many viewpoints and to look for a variety of solutions.
- Build your life around things you can control. Learn to recognize what you can control and what you can’t. Avoid spending much effort on situations that won’t pay off for you.
- Learn self-acceptance. Instead of rejecting the parts of yourself you don’t like, learn to manage them more productively.
- Become aware of selective perception. Observe how you generate ideas and opinions about people and events. Remember that these are just your views, not necessarily objective facts.
- Focus on the future, not the past. Depressed people tend to be focused on the past. People who set goals and focus on the future tend to be more positive about life.
- Develop a sense of purpose. Many depressed people lack a sense of purpose or meaning. This means they have no goals and nothing in the future drawing them forward. To prevent depression, develop your sense of purpose and meaning.
- Strengthen your emotional boundaries and set limits. Boundaries define your role in a social situation. They determine how you will or won’t behave in a given situation. Having clear, strong boundaries is empowering, while boundary violations make you feel victimized and helpless. Setting limits means having and enforcing rules for the behaviors you expect in a relationship.
- Build positive and healthy relationships. Think about what you need from others in relationships. Learn to read people and trust your instincts about which people are good for you.
- Avoid isolation. Talk to others about what’s going on with you. If you keep your thoughts to yourself, you may be unaware that your thoughts are distorted. If you share them with another person, you can become more objective.
- Thinking about death or suicide. This is always dangerous and you should see a professional therapist immediately.
- When symptoms of depression continue for a long time, you may need professional help. Acute responses to events are normal, but they should not last beyond a reasonable time.
- Your ability to function is impaired by your depression. Seek help before your life situation deteriorates to a serious level.
- You have become so isolated that you have no one with whom to test reality. Seek someone out to share your thoughts and feelings with.
- Depressive symptoms have become severe.
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