Improve Your Body Image
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If you have a body image problem you may feel preoccupied with self doubt, lack self confidence and experience depression because you perceive that you do not look good enough.
You may have a body image problem or body dysmorphic disorder. You may feel if your body was just thinner you would achieve all the happiness that you want.
Body Dysmorphic Disorder is a distorted body image in which often people who are already underweight see themselves as being fat. These people are tortured by their struggle to be perfect.
Improving the way you feel about your body maybe the secrete to enhancing your life.
Five Tips for Improving Your Body Imager
Create a Body Image Jou
al to use for the following Tipsr
Body Image Tip 1
Discover Where You Learned about Body Imager
Many people feel that problems with weight and body image comes from the media. While there is certainly a great deal of pressure that comes from the media, however, sometimes people neglect to look at their own history and situation. It can be very helpful to use your jou
al to think back to what shaped your thoughts and feelings about your body. Often parents or love ones project their own issues on to children. Using your Body Image Jou
al for self-discovery can be very helpful.
Body Image Tip 2
Notice your Thoughts, Feelings, and Behaviors Related to Body Imager
Use your jou
al to keep a daily record your thoughts feelings and behavior with respect to your body. This will help you to become more aware of how often negative thoughts and feelings go through your mind and that reinforces your negative self-esteem.
Body Image Tip 3
Use your Jou
al to Identify Patterns in your Thoughtsr
Many people avoid activities and feel less than others because they feel overweight. This can be called If then thinking. An example might be if I lose 20 lbs, my life will be happier or If only I lost weight I could be in the relationship I want.
Other patterns they might emerge are all or nothing thinking. Often people who suffer with body image issues tend to say I look fat in this outfit or I look ugly in that picture.
Body Image Tip 4
Be More Objectiver
Use your body image jou
al to rewrite your thoughts in a more objective manner. Look for generalities that reinforce negative feelings about you. Go through each general statement and see if you can put it in a more objective way. See if you can find some positive things to write.
For example, if you have a jou
al entry that states, I look fat in those pants, you might change it to; I would feel more comfortable in those pants if I lost a few pounds. I do like the way my shirt looks and my hair looked good that day.
Body Image Tip 5
Invest in Yourselfr
Find and reinforce the positive aspects of your body and your capabilities. These can include, your body fitness, your capability to have relationships, or your health.
Additionally find ways to invest in your body. Buy clothes that you feel good about and get gratification from. Take pride in the way you get your hair, nails or makeup done. Notice body-related activities that you are good at mastering skills that show your body's strength and give you pleasure.
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About the Author
I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker in the state of Califo
ia, who is Board Certified by the American Board of Examiners in Clinical Social Work. I have been practicing psychotherapy for over 25 years. My education includes a Masters Degree in Social Welfare from UCLA and Bachelors Degree in Child Development. I am also a Doctoral candidate in Psychology, at Califo
ia Southern University.
My Experience with Eating Disorders
I bring to the problem of eating disorders much personal and professional experience. I began my career working with children age’s two to twelve almost thirty-five years ago. I worked in both after-school care and a psychologically oriented preschool. I began to see the problems children had with food at the preschool.
When I finished my Bachelors Degree in child development, I decided to pursue my Masters Degree in social welfare. I wanted to work as a psychotherapist because I felt I could make more of an impact with people one-to-one.
I have worked with a wide variety of people of different ages, cultures, and socioeconomic levels. I have learned more from the people that I have worked with than in classes, seminars or by reading books.
In 1993, I was employed at a large health maintenance organization in Califo
ia when the opportunity emerged for me to learn more about eating disorders. I worked both individually and in-group psychotherapy sessions with people who were struggling with Anorexia, Bulimia and Binge Eating Disorder.
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