Vision Repaired, by Doug Grady
Legacy signals
Legacy popularity: 1,301 legacy views
Legacy rating: 5/5 from 1 archived votes
I thought I was just tired. I was reading a book with fine print and found myself pulling it further away to make out the words. My vision was better than 20/20- this must be a mistake. I delayed the inevitable for over 2 1/2 years. Last weekend I faced the facts and bought my first pair of reading glasses.
"It is a terrible thing to see and have no vision." -Helen Keller
What are the factors causing us to resist simple shifts that can significantly improve the quality of our lives? Here are some that have popped up for me:
* Resistance to change/comfort zone. Sometimes I like to hold on to my old, comfortable way of looking at things- even if it doesn't work so well anymore.
* Blind spots. I got so used to reading with obscured vision, I almost didn't notice it.
* Self comparison. Comparing myself to how I used to be can be a recipe for frustration. While it is true that I am continuing to improve in various areas of my life, apparently eyesight is not one of them.
* Denial. I simply did not want to accept my limitations.
* Pride/ego/vanity. Glasses, when I got right down to it, represented weakness in my mind. I didn't want to rely on something outside myself to get results I was used to getting on my own.
I just happened to be with a trusted friend who reminded me how absurd my stubbornness was. Without this gentle prodding, it is likely I would still be vision impaired. As I write these words (glasses on) I am wondering what took me so long.
Where there is no vision, the people perish. -Proverbs 29:18
Tools, resources, and strategies are all around us. They come in the form of books, trainings, people... and glasses. What are you doing today to improve your vision?
Article author
About the Author
Doug Grady is the author of the forthcoming book, The Ripple Effect. He has been studying and teaching the pathways to personal potential for over 20 years.
Further reading
Further Reading
Website
Management Communication Skills Training
Management skills training, including Power Phrases, performance review phrases and a variety of management phrases for buy-in, meeting management and more.
Related piece
Article
Three Ways NOT to Talk About Politics at Parties, Work, or at Home
Are you are a political prattler? Most people discuss politics in ineffective, counterproductive and illogical ways. How about you? Here’s a quick test to find out if you’re a political prattler. You’re at a party, and someone makes a stupid political comment. Do you… 1) Call them an idiot and blame them for all the e
Related piece
Article
And Your Point Is?
Janet found that her boss, clients and vendors all interrupted her continually. She thought they were rude until she realized she was using too many words. When she told her boss that she was putting the holiday candles on her office budget instead of the holiday budget, she began by explaining all the reasons she had
Related piece
Article
How To Ask For A Raise: The Top Ten Dos, Don'ts, And PowerPhrases For Getting Paid What You Deserve
Do you think you deserve more for what you do at work? Here's how to ask for a salary increase. It happens occasionally. The boss notices what a great job you're doing and he/she spontaneously offers you a raise. Yes, it does happen. But in most of our worlds, if you want a raise, you need to ask for it. If you want to
Related piece