Who is God?

Guru is suitable only for one thing: to liberate you from searching for a guru. Man has an innate need to seek guidance. This is child's need. Just as the child needs leading in this or other issues. Spiritual life is nothing like an ordinary sphere of life, such as painting or driving a car. When you feel weak on it, you’re looking for guidance.

With time you just become independent, mature. Need of a psychologist, priest, master disappears in you. You are able to satisfy your own needs.
Spiritual discipline is so dangerous that when you go to a mechanic, he has authority over your car, when to a handyman, you can suspend wrong mirrors. And when you go to a spiritual guide, he has power over your soul - your most delicate instrument.

My intention in any case is to not cause fear in you. Man needs to open up and trust, although one person in your life. If he do not, some part of him, remains closed. Trust in others, the ability to surrender is very important.
But what happens when a child is helding Mum's skirt too long? It annoys the parent so he rejects the child. Not because he does not love him. Because they live in harmony with nature and her instincts tell her that it's time for it began to cope alone. Probably the most trauma the fear of rejection comes from this, the parent no longer helps you, when it was already time for you to do it by yourself. This rejection is a natural thing. There is nothing wrong with that.

What happens, however, when the child still does not want to just walk away from a parent? He gets on the wrist. The parent must find a way to tear him apart. Similarly, the spiritual guide. There comes a time when love to stick dependence, even from someone wiser, it would be bad for you. Relying on someone is comfortable. But when you do it too long, you lose your humanity. Your majesty and divinity. The Master sees it and is disgusted with your own lack of respect to yourself. This abomination has nothing negative. It just disgusted, to say that something is wrong. He saw your divinity, and you are now acting like a spoiled child. A true master will not allow it. He will reject you, and if you do not want to release, hurt you, you wanted it. Sometimes it’s the only way.

Often, the student surpasses his teacher. It is natural, because that is the goal of evolution. But when he will be better than his master, still prefer to hang on it, because then there is no burden of responsibility. Or does it for the sake of a beautiful relationship. He wants someone to admire all the time. It’s need to adore the statue. Master for some time may correspond to tickling his ego, but eventually the relationship will be artificial, and ugly.

When you're in something better than someone, it is incumbent on you to behave responsibly. You could rely on his long champ, but inside you feel that you have with him do not grow, that the same music is not in your heart at the sight, it's time you act decisively.
Perhaps then you will be alone. But you were also the same before meeting the other people - whether it was family, champion, collaborator - just go back to its original state. You're in and you're on, but it disappears the world made together with someone. You go back to your world.
A characteristic feature of this condition is that you do not care for anything. You do not have ambition. Do not feel like meeting anyone's expectations. It disappears with many false aspirations. You begin to understand how many of your wishes were only because the other person. That's what you both feel better. Perhaps the time was appropriate. But when a person disappears, it has to go too and pretending.

The problem lies in the pretense that gradually get accustomed to it. It seeps into you and when you get used to being with someone for a mask, which was then didst lay, to make you feel both of them nicely, you wear the mask even when you're alone, without her. You act pleasant moments together in memories, not to brake to think of something that could hurt that person. If you took off his mask, it collapses everything to be your whole world. And you wear many masks.

Is it worth removing them? In my opinion, worth it. I really have no other choice. If you really want to be happy you have to remove all the masks they wore at the other, and they simply don’t care. Do not worry about those others persons.
We go at someone, we enter into its limitations, so that it does not hurt to have noticed how great is our freedom and do not feel offended by it. I really do it for yourself to not feel someone's pain, that your meeting was pleasant.
But why pull the part when you're alone? Then you only harm the person. Once again, a meeting, you can go to the theater again. But behind the scenes, you have to be honest with you. This will give you happiness. If you do not take off his costume after Performance, he strangles you, makes you canno’t breathe.

Shall not in pretense. Do not condemn the creation of illusion in a relationship. But there comes a time when it should not longer be the case.
Something that you undress alone completely naked, is yours.
She is the most wonderful experience. Total honesty with each other. Question: what price you pay for it? Stop to Love your mother, your wife, your co-worker. Along with a photo the role that you played for them, fall off or do you get all the benefits of these relationships.
But when you're alone, you discover that no one really has to love you. Theater, where you meet another of his desire is fun, but fun with a tilde.

When you change, you may never meet the same people. You will find that you no longer need them in your life. Desire for something else.
But even when we meet, you will not be the same persons. You can take the old costume, but your face will say something else. She is on the way fell in love with someone else, you have been betrayed. You have a different experience for him. You are different.
Solitude gives you something much deeper. Lasting happiness. Only the essence of your own can give you ete
al happiness. When you meet two people who are willing to live at the level of its essence, no matter what reaction this will cause in your partner, then meet with God.

The funny thing is that he was not different from you. You may be others, but have the same attitude is everything. Divinity is a certain attitude. By this time, before you meet truly God in the second person, seeing only God in himself.
Being alone gives this unique opportunity. When the others disappear, it appears that there are no other worlds, no desires of others. There is only your will, which creates the universe. You are God. You can then desperately seek God, in other worlds, in anything. But you will not find it anywhere. God is not a voice from the sky, separated from you, who suddenly resumes.

That do people who fall in schizophrenia. They are alone, and continue to create artificial existence of something exte
al. They talk with angels, spirits. Finally, go to a psychiatric hospital.
Be yourself. In the room or in the meadow and see that no one else believes. There is only your opinion. It is the mind of God. Your desire is the desire of God.
Imagine looking at yourself in the eye. These are the eyes of God.