Jay Krunszyinsky
MA, CPRP
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Jay Krunszyinsky Quick Facts
- Main Areas
- Counseling, Relationship Advice, Divorce, Mental Health
- Career Focus
- Author, Executive Management
- Affiliation
- International Association of Psychosocial Rehabilitation Services
He doesn't want to "moralize folks," but he believes people need to start learning early on that "certain things just aren't right." Drawing on 20 years of professional experience in the mental health field, counseling children and families, Jay Krunszyinsky has developed a system that he hopes will "make people slow down and see what's really important in relationships." In his book, "I'm Sorry: Repairing Hurtful Relationships," Krunszyinsky addresses how issues such as negative messages, codependency and perfectionism can lead to hurtful behavior. He outlines a morality-based approach to help people process this hurt and develop healthy relationships. A 1979 graduate of Greensburg Salem High School, Krunszyinsky holds a master's degree in counseling from Indiana University of Pennsylvania. As a state certified psychiatric rehabilitation practitioner and abuse investigator, he has worked for numerous human service agencies, counseling families, children, adolescents and adults.
Jay is a life coach that looks at well-being from many angles including abundance, relationships, health, and happiness,
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Morality and Responsibility
Children who are brought up in families who teach virtues and strong moral values become confused when they enter other environments that teach moral relativism. This starts to confuse children on the rules of life. Something that is taught to be right and wrong at home becomes acceptable other ...
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Irrational Approaches To Relationships In Schools
Public schools do not utilize a system to help students define and evaluate acceptable behavior, so students do not have a way to develop and evaluate good and bad behavior. They are made aware when they break rules. Having rules without outlining positive behavioral expectations only reinforces ...
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The Depender - Neglector
You grew up in a home where very little was expected from you. You were not given responsibilities to help you develop as a child and teenager. Let’s face it, you were a “mamma’s boy” or “daddy’s girl”. Don’t get me wrong, parents that want to spoil their kids have great intentions. If your ...
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The Possessor - Dominator
He brings you candy and flowers and wants to spend all of his time with you. You find him flattering when he becomes upset when you go out with friends and family without him. He wants constant reassuring that your devotion is to him and nobody else. He begins to monitor your phone calls, ...
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The Nurturer - Sabotager
You love your partner very much. You want to please him at all costs. You will go out of your way to create the perfect life for him by reducing or eliminating all of his stress and pressures of life. What can be wrong with helping people and ensuring that peace and harmony exists wherever ...
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Repairing Relationships In Schools
Public schools do not utilize a system to help students define and evaluate acceptable behavior, so students do not have a way to develop and evaluate good and bad behavior. They are made aware when they break rules. Having rules without outlining positive behavioral expectations only reinforces ...
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The Body and Soul Connection
Many adults who have suffered hurts throughout their lives will never hear the words, “I’m sorry”, from those who have hurt them. Those significant persons in your life who have hurt you without atoning for their actions makes this more difficult to overcome. In order to regain a perspective ...Many adults who have suffered hurts throughout their lives will never hear the words, “I’m sorry”, from those who have hurt them. Those significant persons in your life who have hurt you without atoning for their actions makes this more difficult to overcome.
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I’M SORRY
Repairing a Hurtful Relationship
by Jay Krunszyinsky
“BEING MORAL MEANS YOU
ALWAYS NEED TO SAY YOU’RE SORRY”
A top Pennsylvania professional on the front lines of
abuse investigation and counseling speaks out on the
healing powers of sorrow, atonement and an absolute
system of virtues.
You and your children’s ability to find meaning in life centers on how well you can focus on your desires and joy while limiting your time focused on what is not wanted. Your view of the world and the people in it has a direct influence on your happiness. Many parents’ beliefs are reinforced by the media and other exte
al forces, which tends to takes a fear-based approach to life where human potential is limited. Until parents make a shift to beliefs that foster infinite potential in their children, their approach to parenting will not promote the full potential and creativity in their children.
We think the world creates our fear, when in fact; our fear creates images of the world we see. We also think that our unhappiness is due to circumstances that we encounter, when in fact, our unhappiness is what creates our circumstances.
Most of us allow the exte al world to define us and get our messaging and beliefs established by others that we place our trust. Our beliefs become fully engrained at about 7 years old and we continue to receive information from teachers, peers, friends, family, and media that influence our thoughts and beliefs. First beliefs of a child center on pleasing parents and making the false connection that their behavior determines the happiness or unhappiness of a parent or significant person.
The problem is that our subconscious mind takes in all information and stores it away as truth unless you consciously dismiss messages as not true. Although we think and believe that the exte al world actually presents events and situations that cause our emotional responses, the opposite is true. Our thoughts and beliefs actually create the picture that we see in the exte al world.
Fear is the driving force to all negative emotions and our beliefs and thoughts are what reinforce this emotion. Anger, frustration, depression, hopelessness, overwhelment, sadness, and other negative emotions all stem from fear.
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