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Timing is Everything
While eating dinner with a single male friend of mine, I was reminded again how important timing is in relationships. There's no way around it. We either manage the situation or the situation manages us. After we both pitched in the obligatory small talk, the conversation turned to the inevitable subject of dating and his recent experiences. Earlier that day on the phone, he had spoken in vague disgruntled outbursts like "I cannot believe it.” and “I should have known!” After I asked “Believe what? Known what?” he was silent a moment, then he said, “Denise.”
Men Are Like Waffles
Why is it so hard to figure out the opposite sex? Because our brains work differently. Men’s brains are really good at focusing completely on just one thought and women’s brains are really good at thinking many thoughts at the same time. This difference can make it hard to figure out what each ...Why is it so hard to figure out the opposite sex? Because our brains work differently.
Do Women Over-Generalize? Always & Never
Men and women sometimes use the same words but with different meanings. Women have a tendency to over-generalize statements, using words like ALWAYS and NEVER. Women sometimes say to men, “You ALWAYS do this,” or “You NEVER do that.” The use of these words is not meant to be taken literally, ...Men and women sometimes use the same words but with different meanings.
Is He Your Knight in Shining Armor?
Most men want to be the “Knight in Shining Armor.” When the Knight arrives to save the “Damsel in Distress,” he expects that he will have to work hard. To win the affection of the Damsel, the Knight knows he must be brave, work hard and slay the dragon. He is willing to put forth this effort ...Most men want to be the “Knight in Shining Armor.” When the Knight arrives to save the “Damsel in Distress,” he expects that he will have to work hard. To win the affection of the Damsel, the Knight knows he must be brave, work hard and slay the dragon.
Why Do Bad Breakups Happen?
Breakups hurt as anyone going through one will attest to. Some people feel sad for a while, change some routines in their lives, reconnect with friends, and bounce back rather swiftly. Others, however, become entrenched in insurmountable sadness and gut wrenching grief. Why is it that some have a harder time getting over a breakup than others? Why do bad breakups happen in certain cases and not in others? The Origin of a Bad Breakup
***Being a Man of Inaction
We just finished another bootcamp for men in Chicago and are about to head to New York City for another one for men this friday-saturday, and I have to tell you how one thing strikes me: so often, men think that they have to be perfect in so many ways - perfect at their dating skills, finding the perfect woman to marry, and after a tough time of a long relationship or the absence of a dating life on the other end of the spectrum, many rubber-band to the opposite of what they think is failure - going after only what's perfect.
***From Boys of Violence to Men of Steel
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***Death as a Masculine Power
What does the death of a male mentor mean for your own identity as a man? The funeral I am driving to, is that of Dr. G. Alec Stewart, a prominent physicist, and Dean of the Honors College where I went to school. In fact, it was his idea to even have an Honors College. To me, he was THE mentor, benefactor, and advocate. In my family, very few people went to college, and of those, nobody had gone beyond an undergraduate degree. We were not of means, and I suppose because of the difficulty in getting a degree, couldn’t find a means to get the means.
***Getting Over Her Rapidly!
It's the age-old problem universal to all men. They may be already physically free of the wrong woman for them, whether they were the one to do the breaking up or vice versa. But... They are still impaired by her, ruled by her, whether still in contact from a few days ago and either obsessed or guilted, or whether it happened years ago in a divorce and she's moved on but you haven't. Well so many questions have arisen this week that return one way or another to this age-old problem that we just had to find a way to address it with the best combination of our offerings and advice.