2nd Part: 100% responsibility

However, you can easily change the response to the event - until you get the desired result.
You can change your thoughts, communications, and thus the image you have of things. You can also change your behavior by altering your thoughts positive in order to change your feelings and actions. Then you begin to act and influence the situation, instead of just reacting to it.

If you take 100% responsibility, you will change the results instantly. Because then you have control over your thoughts, feelings and actions.

Unfortunately, most people are stuck firmly in their habits. There cannot be any change. We are stuck in our conditioned responses to certain situations. Ask yourself how you see the marriage and your role as parent. This gives you insights on habits and responses that you know from your parents.
We are a bundle of conditioned reflexes that occur outside our control.
So you need to take control by being responsible. You need to take control of your thoughts, dreams, daydreams, ideas and behavior patterns. Everything you think, say and do must match deliberately your calling, your values and goals.

So if you do not like the result that you get, you can only change your response to it. This also means:

• Never give up. - No more finger-pointing. - No more defense. - No, BUT.

You can only reach these behavioral changes if you stop watching television, listen radio and read novels. Be aware that as long as you let yourself influence by other means you are telling your subconscious mind with what it already knows. Changes can only happen when you deliberately and actively deliver new truths your subconscious mind.
It is time that we look behind the scenes and understand the connections. Do you recognize the truth that is deep within you? Listen to your inner voice and not to your mind. Your mind is fed by the subconscious mind, which is the memory of your experience and feelings. In addition, there are the feelings and fears of your parents and grandparents saved in your subconscious mind. That input you received before your EGO developed at the age of 7.

When people do not open themselves for the new consciousness, we will be in even more critical times and will meet social unrest. On the other hand, the new consciousness is already developing which we can see with promising new projects, starting with new enterprise projects such as the movement Occupy and the Thrive Movement. People are more aware and therefore more courageous, more stand up for the change.

You are a part of everything you see and feel. You have the opportunity to live in harmony with creation. You are not a fallen angel. You are here voluntarily and have also decided to be aware to be exactly here that time on earth. You are a dedicated and powerful being. You are the creator of your conscious thoughts, your feelings and actions, and thus the resulting consequences. If you want to have different results, just change your thoughts.