A Spiritual Story

Men, Money & Chocolate: a spiritual tale

It was a soft September evening. Magic hour. Four years ago. Vicky, my mother, and I were sitting in her garden, talking about love, light and enlightenment. Three days before that she’d been coaching me about the breakdown of my marriage. Suddenly she’d said something of such spectacular insight that it flipped me into a state of enlightenment. For almost seventy-two hours my mind was silent, my heart was full, and I was just supremely happy.

On the third day I fell back to earth with a bump. Vicky asked me what happened and I replied that it was: “men, money and chocolate”. The words just came to me. We both knew what they meant and we laughed, despite the rather tragic fact that most people fearfully believed, as I now, did that love, success and pleasure were essential sources of happiness, without which they’d be miserable.

For three days I’d known this wasn’t true and, whenever I started slipping back into the fear that it was, I’d had Vicky there to coach be back to reality. Not the usual reality of course, not the one that most of society believes is true, but the reality my heart knew to be true: that I already had everything I needed to be happy inside me.

Unfortunately Vicky couldn’t monitor me all the time and, my state of enlightenment still fresh and fragile, it soon succumbed to the fearful thoughts that still lingered in my mind. But, the insight and inspiration of those three days never left me and four years later I wrote this book, Men, Money & Chocolate, about my experiences.

Over the years, as this book was simmering inside me, it became my mission to share these experiences of enlightenment with other people, to show them that life doesn’t have to be lived in fear, to show them happiness secrets about spiritual living in the material world, about how to live from your heart instead of your head. I got most of those secrets from Vicky, who continued to coach me along the way, and now I share them with you.