Approaching Someone That You Have A Crush On

When we like someone, we may be afraid to approach them. We may have developed a crush and feelings toward them, but because of our fear of rejection, we haven’t spoken to them about the possibility of getting together. When we really like someone, approaching them feels even hard because they have become something more to us. We may imagine what they would be like or simply feel good when we see them. But how does a person go up to another person and really say what they want to say? What you need to know is that you do not need to have it all figured out. You only need to make the first step and reach out. That is the only truly big thing that needs to happen. You must approach them by simply walking up to them and saying hello. You do not need to plan it out because a conversation can go in many directions. If you try to plan everything out, this may overwhelm you and probably cause you to hold yourself back form approaching them at all. The bigger you make the moment in your mind, the harder it will feel. Try not to think about the outcome or what will happen, simply plan on approaching this person at the next best opportunity. If you let the moment go by because you are afraid, then you will never know what could have been. To be afraid of someone solely because you like them is understandable, but the fear is there because you do not know if they like you. You could hit it off and plans could be made, but you will never know if you are too afraid to talk to them. Remember, it is only the opening you need to have and try to be yourself. Try to remind yourself that this is only another person just like you, someone you may like, but they may like you as well. If we keep ourselves from reaching out because of a fear of rejection, then we will never know the other person or find out what could have been. If you are not meant to be together or go out with each other, then you will find out, but only if you approach them first. Keep it simple; do not over-think it or worry about it, just approach them and try to be yourself. Try to keep yourself centered and in a comfortable space. If you are nervous, then take deep breaths and do not think about what might happen. Clear your mind, calm your emotions, and have confidence in yourself. What is the worst that could happen; this person turns you down? If they do, then you are free to move on and let the crush go. In fact, you owe it to yourself to find out now, rather than feeling the way you do about them and never doing anything about it. You will not regret having tried. In fact, you will be proud of yourself for being so brave. Rejection only hurts for a moment, but a crush can last forever. Find out if your crush could become something more because it could. Wouldn’t you like to know? Be brave, if only for that moment; trust that either way you will be okay and just say hello. Don’t over-think it; remain calm and be yourself. When the right moment comes in your conversation to ask, do. Just ask and be proud that you did. Ask if the other person would like to get together, create the option to get connected; that is all you need to do. It is not any more overwhelming than just one question, and you can do it. Let yourself find out if there can be more because there really could be.