Are you ready for LOVE?

Being that my favorite month is just around the corner (Birthday and Valentine’s Day) I decided to start the LOVE blogs now. Why wait until February 14th? Maybe I will write something that will change the way you look at your love life and it will inspire you to make some changes.EVERYONE has the potential to have a great romance. Remember, it is not about going out and finding it, it really is about “being it. If you are manifesting and praying for a great soulmate, you have to be one yourself. If someone that great is going to come into your life, it will be because you were drawn to each others energy. It has to be on equal ground, both in the same place (in life and location), at the very same time. IF it hasn’t happened yet, one of you is just not ready. There is nothing to worry or be upset about. The only control you have is to be ready, be honest, and be YOU.
I was so moved by the recent article in Elle about how and why Reese Witherspoon decided to get married again. I posted about it but here’s a brief summary- Witherspoon didn’t think she would marry again. She says, “Jim’s like, I’m gonna show you every day what a good partner is, what a good person is. I’m gonna take care of you, I’m gonna do this so much that you’re gonna get used to it”. Reese also says, “Jim has incredible character. Everything he ever had in his life, he had to work really hard for. I get the chills just writing about it. This isn’t Sweet Home Alabama, it is real life.

It is just as easy to have hope and faith in love than it is not to. I coach people who think its hopeless, who look at relationships and see only what they know from their past. When I help them to leave their pasts behind, change their mindsets, and only FOCUS on what they want as opposed to what they HAD or NEVER HAD, that is when things begin to change. So start focusing on what you want your love life to look like and who knows what will be a month from now? At least you will start to head in the right direction. Reese wasn’t looking for it, it just happened, they met at a party. Who knows where and when the love of your life will show up? Are you ready?