Be the Change...

The world is changing. I see it all around me.

More and more women are focusing on heart-centered living, embarking on a soul journey that takes them deeper within themselves, creating more meaning in their lives.

It’s beautiful to watch as they grow and blossom into more vibrant versions of themselves.

Often when they begin to evolve and flourish their relationships begin to change as well. Women feel that they want their connection with their partners to reflect the depth of their personal growth.

It leaves men in a bit of a pickle. If before they found it difficult to understand where their partner was coming from, imagine their confusion with a more self-aware spouse.

I’ve always fancied myself a bit of a champion of men. In the past when male-bashing was popular I would speak up empathetically on their behalf. And now as I see women moving through their soul jou
eys, I’ve noticed that there isn’t a lot of support for men on a personal level.

Women have found many resources and outlets in order to have a voice that is heard, to speak their truth and to be validated in the world.

Where, though, is the safe haven for men to express their emotions, their deepest desires? Where is their support system to help them find their voice, to discover their passion, to release their pain? Where is their support and counsel on how to live a heart-centered life, to create the deeper, more meaningful relationship that their partner desires?

As I have been reflecting on these questions, I realized that I can help. I have the tools and skills to guide men through the unfamiliar territory of emotional awareness. I can create the safe space for them to touch on long hidden barriers to a life of passion, depth and immeasurable love. I can help them face the fears that keep deep-seated emotions locked away.

The time has come for the perfect balance of masculine and feminine energies. We are moving in a world of more equality for women and men. And we all could use a little help now and then to reach a peaceful balance, a partnership that just feels good.

Men need this now. Let’s give them the support they need and deserve so that they have the opportunity to be the kind of partners we, as women, know they can be. Most men want to do the right thing, they just don’t always know what that is. Let’s give them the chance to find out.

With love and kindnessr
Bettina