Best Methods To Get Out Of The Friend Zone

If you think you are headed towards the friend zone with the girl you like, the following are three easy strategies you can use immediately to throw her off before she does it.

Time is very important, because you know as well as I do, that the moment a girl categorizes you as her friend, it will be near impossible to change her mind.

The first strategy is to, however, friend her first! This sounds contradictory, but this works. If you are absolutely falling in love with the girl, and it has come to your attention that it seems like she thinks of you only as a friend, you are probably right! The best way to stop this is to say something like, "Thanks, you are such a good friend." Most women will recognize this technique. You are now a challenge to her, as she will not have believed that you friend zoned her before she did you. She will now want to get your attention and try to get you to like her.

The second method is to distance you from the girl. Chances are that you find yourself falling into the friend zone because you are acting like her servant. This is a simple method; you just need to become less available. Do not answer her calls each and every time. Basically set the tone that you are a busy person, your time is valuable, and she is clearly not the only thing in your life. Just become slightly distant for a while. She will soon recognize this and start calling you more often. Women want what they cannot have.

The final strategy I am teaching you is to casually mention another girl's name. Women are usually jealous by nature. If she asks you out to go shopping or something she will only normally do with her girlfriends, respectfully decline her, but tell her you are doing something else with another girl. Honestly, the other girl can be your sister or an actual friend; she does not need to know that. This is also a good way to gauge whether you still have a chance if at all with her. If you reject her and tell her that you are going out with another girl, she will ask you a lot of questions if she is interested in you romantically. If she is not, she will accept your 'rejection' and not ask any further questions.