Compatibility, Love, & Subconscious Mind - What a Handwriting Analyst Can Tell You About Your Lover

A well-trained graphologist (handwriting analyst) canncertainly identify personality strengths, challenges, andnpotential relationship problems, but he/she won’t tell younif you should marry or not. That decision is up to you.

Before committing to a life together (as with traditionalnmarriage), two people would help themselves by alsonseriously considering who they really are (aside from allnsocietal programming and conditioning), why they are herenon earth, and what it is that their higher-selves (souls)nhave chosen to experience. Graphology, meditation, andnregression therapy are effective ways to know the who andncomprehensive astrology and numerology open the door to thenwhat and why.

It’s rare for modern-day couples to give much thoughtnto themselves and their relationships before committing,nlegally or otherwise. It’s much more common to leap beforenlooking in matters of the heart and we see this as “by design”nso that we all put ourselves in the positions necessary tonfulfill spiritual contracts, many of which includendifficulties.

For those interested in and possibly fated for a more cautiousnapproach, graphology (handwriting analysis) offers tremendousnpersonality and relationship insight.

Comprehensive numerology and astrology are good fornpersonality analysis, but our findings indicate thatngraphology offers a deeper look into subconsciousnpersonality.

A well-trained graphologist can indicate if a person isnemotionally stable or volatile, honest or insincere,nenthusiastic or depressed, in good health or unwell,nintellectually sharp or slow-witted, artistic or analytical,nsedentary or physically active, closed or open-minded,nextroverted or introverted, tense or relaxed, immature ornmature, and much more.

Some of the more important areas of interest a graphologistnexamines in relation to romantic compatibility are asnfollows: emotional maturity, integrity, honesty, sincerity,nneed for variety, level of interest in sex, communicationnskills (including listening skills), level of self-esteem,ncritical analysis/sense of disce
ment (effectiveness innidentifying and understanding personality relationshipnissues), acquisitiveness (desire for money and materialnthings), and financial extravagance/irresponsibility.

Since sex and money seem to be the root of many couple’snproblems, most certified graphologists apply complexnprotocols to efficiently identify core issues. For example,nfinancial issues are frequently linked with some of thenfollowing graphologically disce
able personality traits:nimpulsiveness, lack of discipline, lack of control, extremensensuousness, and distorted generosity.

Furthermore, graphologists consider the following traitsnto be some of the more destructive common red flags thatnchallenge personal relationships: argumentativeness,ndomineering/controlling disposition, evasiveness, intolerance,nvanity, withdrawal, reticence, drug and alcohol problems,nfear of intimacy, denial, self-deception, and rationalization.

Note that graphology assesses conscious and subconsciousncharacter, so the graphologist is able to outline the real,nprevailing personality; the one that shows up while unde
stress, not only the one displayed when on one’s best behavior.

A comprehensive handwriting analysis can indicate potentialnfor future behavior, but in most cases, for instance, not thatnyour mate is cheating right now. Still, it is possible to getna very good idea whether or not the subject is cheating if thatnperson writes a reasonable sample (at least ¾ of a page) ofnspontaneous handwriting, and writes specifically about his/hernfaithfulness/sincerity and his/her current relationship/partner.
If he/she is in fact cheating, indications of integrity issues/ninsincerity would likely show up in the analysis.

When considering a long term commitment and/or marriage,nit’s also important to acknowledge that permanence does notnexist when it comes to relationships here on Earth. All bondsnmust dissolve at some point and fate guarantees (as can benidentified and tracked through comprehensive numerology andnastrology) whether a connection is to last only a day, endurena lifetime, or some period of time in between. Almost everyonenwants an ideal match with which to spend the rest of his/hernlife.

Knowing this while accepting that not all relationships arenmeant to be long-term can help minimize disappointment andnheartache.

We would advise anyone to follow their heart, yet squarelynface the truth that higher-self (soul) plans are frequently inncontrast with ego-self (conscious personality) plans. Becomingnaware of and aligning yourself with your true self and highestnpath pay deep dividends in the long run, although it’s not easynto give up many of those ego-self demands and expectations.

Our easy to use (even without a certified graphologistndesignation) Graphology Resource Keys and Graphology Trait-
Based Guide offer tremendous personality and compatibility insight.

Copyright © 2007 Scott Petullo, Stephen Petullo