Context is Everything

True Love involves loyalty, humility, commitment, fidelity and honor. Ideals that form the fundamental context of life long relationships.
Context is the environment of relationship: The framework of ideas, assumptions, traditions and beliefs that form a certain perspective.
Some are formed in self defense usually at an early age. Most of your beliefs and assumptions were inherited without question from parents, cultures and religions.
They are the environment in which your relationships either grow and prosper or dissolve into dysfunction.
What you have in your life is what you truly believe is possible.

Even a slight modification in Context can transform the entire outcome of your life.
"I'm sorry but my paradigm just ran over your dogma"

Context is given by something larger and more pervasive. It seems like reality but context is a result of the Paradigm in which you live your life.
So what the heck is a paradigm? Does it hurt?
A paradigm is:
• a way of seeing
• a mental model
• a filter of perceptions
• a frame of reference
• a thought or belief through which one's world is interpreted
• a commonly held belief among a group of people

All great breakthroughs in human evolution have been the result of a shift in perception or paradigm.
We call them "insights" because they originate as inner vision. Yet when acted upon in accord with inner and outer laws they fundamentally alter the world.
Inner vision + right action = infinite possibilities

Human flight was always possible. A world without hunger is possible. A world of love, respect and peace has always been possible.
Look around you. Everything you see was once an idea, a thought and a belief in something possible backed up by right actions.

You are already profoundly related to everyone you meet. When you feel that in your bones, love is no longer a place to get to it is the place you come from.
This is a radical paradigm shift.
The only way to know something is to live it. That's the Enlightened part of Romance.

Get a little action with your enlightenment.
Otherwise it's all theory.
Like any art, Enlightened Romance has two distinct parts: Theory & Practice or Insight and Action.