Yesterday I heard a discussion of stalking on "The Diane Rehm Show." The guest, Kate Brennan, had written a memoir about her experiences with being the victim of a stalker, "In His Sights."
Only last week, I facilitated a dramatic session of Energy Spirituality that involved cutting a cord of attachment between my client and a stalker.
The crime is a kind of terrorism. With that recent client, as with other stalking victims I've been able to help, the horror seems unrelenting. Even if the stalker has died, or the problem officially ended years ago, the victim of stalking still feels the recurring nightmare.
If you know someone who has suffered in this terrible way, please do some consciousness raising about
what it means to cut a cord of attachment. After all, most people have no clue that this option exists. By spreading the word, you may make help to end enormous suffering.
Most of you readers have been on the receiving end of this kind of healing, even if you've never been the recipient of a stalker's unwelcome attentions. Some of you have learned how to cut cords permanently, as well. In fact, some of you have even been doing healing sessions for others, which I applaud.
Based on personal experience, you know the special kind of relief that results from cutting a cord of attachment. And you're welcome to comment at
my blogabout what your experiences have been. Here, let's consider the consequences of cutting a cord to a stalker.
WHAT HAPPENS TO YOU, AFTER A CORD HAS BEEN CUT?
"Relief" is the most common word I hear. Until a cord of attachment is cut, you're energetically bound to the cordee (the person at the other end of that particular cord). Every day of your life, 24/7, right until the last minutes of your life, you will be influenced by the dynamics of that particular cord, repeating within your subconscious mind like some MP3 file run amok.
Cutting a cord doesn't change the cordee. A stalker won't be made sane, and any objective precautions that must be taken for self-protection still will need to be maintained. But the subjective nightmare is different.
Once a cord is cut, it is common for a client to stop obsessing over the relationship. And why not? You're freed from the obsessive energies of the stalker which, otherwise, have replayed within your own mind-body-spirit system. Memory remains, of course. But the electrical charge is gone.
Using my 12 Steps to Cut Cords of Attachment(R), the healing requires no consent from the stalker. You are the one who initiates the healing, and you have every right to receive it.
Many new clients are surprised to learn that it takes just one session to cut a cord of attachment, and do it permanently. If the job is done with skill, you never will have a cord of attachment to this person again.
And I can assure you that, no matter how vile or crazy the cordee, I have NEVER encountered a cord of attachment that was too difficult to cut. That's based on doing this kind of work since 1986.
You can learn to cut cords for yourself, or just become a smarter consumer about this little-known specialty, by reading
"Cut Cords of Attachment,” the first book on this topic in the English language.
And October 10-12, I'll be offering a
weekend Intensive n for teaching professional-level skills about how to Cut Cords of Attachment. Even if the only client you ever have is you, that could make a huge difference for your current calm, your future peace of mind.
WHY, WHY, WHY?
The simplest help I can offer stalker victims would be
one phone session, which would be enough to cut the cord of attachment to the stalker. But sometimes a person wants answers: Why did this happen? What caused this? Is there any rhyme or reason?
Some might turn to psychotherapy. Others might turn to psychics. I offer a different approach,
Energy Release Regression Therapy.
Information can be a comfort, especially after that cord of attachment is cut. More important than learning the cause of a stalking would be removing the frozen blocks of energy stuck deep in your cells.
In the words of my mentor for learning this form of regression therapy, Dr. Coletta Long, "There are no innocent victims."
It may sound harsh at first but isn't meant that way.
Somewhere in the deep past of a stalking victim, there is a cause. In regression, you can safely be guided back to that cause and, most important, I can help you to release frozen blocks around your experiences.
Sometimes the cause involves your having hurt others in a way that was comparable to your experience this time around.
Other times, the cause could be related specifically to the soul who has, in this lifetime, become your stalker.
Either way, frozen blocks are involved. And every exploded block brings a sweet calm, the sense of your own life coming back to you.n