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***Definition: Love Compatibility

Written by Dr. Charles D. Schmitz and Dr. Elizabeth A. Schmitz, the Official Guides to Love

Topic: LovePublished April 7, 2008
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The love compatibility factor is critically important to all successful loving relationships. It is our profound belief based on 25+ years of research on love and marriage that seven core values make up the love compatibility necessary to have a lasting and successful relationship or marriage. If you and the one you love truly believe in these Seven Core Values of a Loving Relationship you are well on your way to love compatibility: We are committed to always putting each other first in our relationship with each other. We are committed to democracy in our relationship. We are committed to ensuring our mutual happiness. We value absolute trustworthiness and integrity in our relationship with each other. We are committed to caring and unconditional love for each other. We are committed to being mutually respectful towards each other. We value our mutual sense of responsibility for each other. There can be no equivocation when it comes to these core love compatibility values. Discuss these with the one you love today. Compatibility when it comes to love is required in all successful relationships. Does yours measure up?

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This definition is part of a series that covers the topic of Love. The Official Guides to Love are Drs. Elizabeth and Charles Schmitz. Now you can order the Doctors' new book entitled, Golden Anniversaries: The Seven Secrets of Successful Marriage at Amazon.com or from their website with FREE Images of Love DVD. With 25 years of research experience on successful marriage and their own 41-year marriage, Drs. Charles and Elizabeth Schmitz know what makes marriage work. From their hundreds of interviews with happily married couples, representing 15,000 years of marriage, they've discovered the seven pervasive characteristics present in all successful marriages. Their book exposes the secrets for success through these poignant, real life stories. Get started with “the marriage doctors” by taking their Marriage Quiz or asking them a question at Ask The Marriage Doctors or downloading their FREE eBook at Salad Recipes For Love and Health. During their distinguished careers the Doctors have received some 60 local, state, and national awards; published nearly 200 articles and manuscripts; delivered over 1000 speeches, workshops and public presentations; traveled throughout the world; and appeared on radio and television and in the print media. Dr. Charles D. Schmitz is Dean and Professor of Family and Counseling Therapy at the University of Missouri in St. Louis and Dr. Elizabeth A. Schmitz is President of Successful Marriage Reflections, LLC. Additional Resources covering Love can be found at: Website Directory for Love Articles on Love Products for Love Discussion Board Dr. Charles D. Schmitz and Dr. Elizabeth A. Schmitz, the Official Guides To Love

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