Do Not Let Him Or Her To Degrade You

Here is a question / dilema of a young married professional:

I just started a new job; I gave my number to two male classmates in a training course.
When they called, my husband became furious and very angry. Later he went through the phone bill and found out I called them. He said I'm a liar and he couldn't trust me anymore.

My Reply was:
Your situation is not easy: you are married to whom you love, but you have realized that he is loaded with an 18th century attitude regarding women in general and a proper wife’s behavior in particular.

So be your own psychologist and do the assessment:
If your feeling is that this is insecurity due to inferiority masculinity issue, use assurance love and tender and try to work it out.

If you feel that it is the old fashion stupid male dominance and jealousy, use your senses and walk out; and the sooner the better.

Your current training activities and future career would not and should not accommodate such an attitude. You also do not want that your future children would treat you as a second graded citizen. If this is the direction, a short term counseling would definitely be helpful to strategies your steps.