Do you wish you had someone to share your day and night life with?

By Naftali & Chana Schwartz July 15,2010

I am happily married now 11 years to my beloved husband, Naftali Schwartz. Sometimes I do think about those times that made me feel sad and alone when I used to be single. I got up in the morning at 6:15am each day to go to work. I went on the subway off to work in Manhattan. I ate breakfast alone and had nobody to talk to or to see how I was doing. I would leave to work feeling tense and nervous because I had my days planned out by my boss, but I could not stop thinking of always being all alone. Everything I did in my single days were usually all alone, except when I interacted at work or went out with friends in the evenings or on weekends. I mostly concentrated on my career or jobs because that was what I had those days. Until I really started to get involved with Hineni, Aish and other organizations, I was really on my own. They brought me hope, torah and faith.

Today I am a full-time mother & General Manager of our Relationship Coaching Practice. I have much more responsibilities tha
I did when I was single. So I just want to share with you that marriage is fulfilling because when you leave a single life to go into creating a family, then "your whole world changes". There is never enough time to do everything. When you have children not only do you have to prepare meals for them, help them with their school work, take them to the doctor, take them on little trips etc., but you must play with them and develop a very special relationship with them. Otherwise, they will lose out on your time and love because they grow up so quickly. Being a stay at home working mother and wife is extremely busy because there are always errands to do, articles to write and other work as well as prepare for online activities and for clients.

This is why we must learn to be happy, successful singles. You go into marriage with an excitement ready to settle in a new family life. Once a person has the freedom in planning the important things in life before getting married and also has lots of fun on his/her own, then he/she should be able to relax and think of the kind of person that would bring him/her happiness in a family situation for the future. That is one of the ways to attract your bashert (marriage partner)! It is all about being ready and willing to do your part in preparation for family living.

When Naftali was single, he felt incomplete and missed having his other half. Life does not have much meaning when you cannot share it with your other half. We are told that before we are born, there is a voice in Heaven decreeing which soul is to be matched with its soul mate. It is up to us to go and find our "other half" which is known as "finding your bashert".

The bottom line is one must truly believe that his/her bashert is really out there and basically you will meet your bashert by applying the principle known as the Law of Attraction (LOA).

This is your great fortune that we are introducing you to this is amazing principle. Chana and I did not know about this law, and so we consider ourselves very lucky that Hashem (G-d), got us together! We basically followed our individual hunches to find each other through the aid of the Hineni organization lead by Rebbetzin Esther Jungreis.

However, we offer you a proven system of tools and techniques to help you find your soulmate (bashert) without the guesswork, disappointment, and frustration associated with conventional dating! Come join us through a fascinating journey where you learn to discover your true potential, essence, and character, which in turn will help you to attract to yourself your true soulmate!