Effective Methods To Win Your Ex Back

After keeping a relationship for a long period of time, it must have been devastating to lose someone who you feel is your soul mate. When moving on seems to be not an option, all you want to do is rekindle the passion that you once had for each other.

A lot of people would’ve asked, “Why get an ex back?” or “Why don’t you just move on?” but when it feels as if you broke up for the wrong reasons or you strongly believe that you two are meant for each other, it wouldn’t hurt to at least “try”.

Let’s say you haven’t seen or heard from your ex for so long and you feel that you’re over that person. You have no feelings or whatsoever about him/her at the current time, like being finally moved on with the issue. And you suddenly see that person again, still single like you are, smiling at you, clearly debunking the awkwardness and he/she obviously still has feelings for you, the heck with those questions and say “Why not?”

Here are the things to consider before proceeding with the tips: If they’re worth it, if there’s no reason why you can’t be together, if the person gives out signs of the love still being present, and if Fate seems to be in your favor.

Try your best to prove to your ex that you are indeed his/her soul mate with a couple of tricks to win a person’s heart.

Be yourself

Act familiar, you don’t have to be a stranger to her/him. Be the person that your ex once met and loved. It will reel that person in with a sense of familiarity. Invite them for coffee or a quick chat to catch up a bit. After a long time of separation, it will make you both feel good after a cup of coffee to celebrate the reunion.

A-okay

Show your ex that you’re doing fine, but don’t overdo it, else they will think it’s a bluff or you’re going to make them pity you. You don’t want to look still love-stricken or a shattered mess. Just let them know that you’ve managed to pick yourself up together and back on track. Tell stories about your current activities and other stuff you do for self-improvement, and a few new things about yourself to fill them up.

Send them in the comfort zone

Once you’ve laid out your present position, establish a connection. Bring up a funny memory when you were still together or an update about a common friend that helped you two in your past relationship. Strike up a chord in their hearts with a pinch of nostalgia. Mix in laughter with some reminiscing of the good old times and as much as possible, evade bad events or touchy subjects.

Maintain Constant Communication

End the reunion by exchanging numbers and wishing them the best. Let them know that you can be there for them when they need your help. After getting their number, don’t just grab the phone when you arrive home. Wait for it. It’s either they call you or wait at least for a couple of days before calling them. You can send messages, but be careful not to spam them. Just send in a message or two every three days, but when the other party seems to be eagerly responding to your messages then go right ahead and text them all you want.

“Love is sweeter the second time around”

Unleash your romantic side and surprise them with something unexpectedly sweet. Serenade her with a love song, bake him a cake, bring her flowers or take him to somewhere he would like. Do little gestures and say words from the bottom of your heart that will win their affection and not just for the sake of getting them back, but because you mean it, every bit of it.

Your last chance: A Redo

By this time, you should know the pitfalls of your past relationship. Don’t make promises that you can’t keep. Don’t let them go again if you can’t stand being apart. And finally love them whole-heartedly.