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Forgiveness Unleashes Abundance

Topic: Business Coach and Business CoachingBy Adela RubioPublished Recently added

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Forgiveness is vital to personal evolution and impacts abundance, or the lack of it, in your world. When you choose to withhold forgiveness, you open yourself to blame, anger, resentment or even guilt, and you block the flow of what is naturally available to you.

Ironically, when those emotions embed themselves in the foundation of your world, they only serve to magnetize more of the same to you thus, generating more limiting experiences.

Forgiveness goes way deeper than relinquishing blame for wrongdoing. If you are in the beginning stages of your forgiveness adventure you probably want to use tools that address the thinking and feelings associated with this state.

Emotions get locked in the body and if you don’t address them you’ll just ping pong between the past (thinking about what happened) and creating the same in the future (based on how you feel about the past). Forgiveness collapses time and brings you here and now, where what’s true resides.

The act of forgiveness is the act of returning to present time. ~Carolyn Myss

My colleague, Colin Tipping, created a powerful 4-step process called Radical Forgiveness. He provides some great free tools on his site to guide you through the process. The next time you’re in the grip of guilt or resentment and are trying to break free into forgiveness, try the Radical Forgiveness process:

1. Look at what I’ve created. Acknowledge your power and authority and claim what you have created.

2. I notice my judgments and my feelings but I love myself anyway. Accept yourself unconditionally.

3. I am willing to see the perfection in this situation. Be open to explore what’s true.

4. I choose peace. Claim the essence of your being and your power to choose. Use it to create what you want, not what you don’t want.

This process creates profound shifts in your being and frees energy locked in by negative emotions. Realize that when you hold onto resentments you continue to feed them. Things and people are locked in by your perception of them. When you forgive someone, you are actually freeing yourself and others to be seen truly. This allows a miracle to occur and peace and freedom become your companions.

Forgiveness is the healing of the perception of separation. ~A Course in Miracles

How do you know if you’re complete with forgiving someone? You will have no emotional charge, the buttons will have been obliterated, and there will be nothing to trigger you. It will be as if it never occurred! Forgiveness frees others, but mostly, it frees YOU!

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Adela Rubio is a Joint Venture Strategist who helps coaches and creatives share their message and build their tribe using engaging listbuilding strategies. She is an expert at creating experiential online virtual events that position you to free your Unique Essence, share your Authentic Message and power boost your reach with Joint Ventures. Let Adela teach you how powerful partnerships can be. Download Adela's free audio "Creating Powerful Partnerships" at http://adelarubio.com today!