Having No Choice Is Always A Personal Opinion
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At first glance this statement may appear to be gratuitous. After all, some people appear to have little or no choice in the circumstances in which they find themselves. Sometimes, it’s true, we are subject to events outside our control. I know of one man who became a paraplegic after an accident through no fault of his own. Many people in such circumstances would spend the rest of their days feeling powerless and useless, in the control of others who would have to attend to their needs. They feel they have no choice.
Not this man. He created and developed a successful business, employing only people with significant disabilities. He brought laughter and hope to many. He achieved things that few able-bodied people even aspire to. He was loved and respected in his community and left a legacy that will always be remembered.
When we feel we have no choice, we have made this a choice. We can choose how we respond to anything or anyone around us. n
In Peace and Love
Warren Redmannwww.EFitInstitute.com
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Warren Redman trained in the UK as a psychotherapist, facilitator and coach and has developed his own unique style of Emotional Fitness Coaching. He is president of the Emotional Fitness Institute (formally the Centre for Inner Balancing), writing about, teaching and coaching people in Emotional Fitness. He is the author of fifteen books, including the Award-winning The 9 steps to Emotional Fitness, Achieving Personal Success and Recipes for Inner Peace.
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