How Effective Leaders Tell Compelling Stories
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- Tap into your audiences’ prior experience. A study by psychologist Melanie Green showed that prior knowledge and life experience affected the ability of the audience to connect emotionally to the story. Familiarity helps the audience identify with the characters in your story. As my old speech coach use to say, "there are 10 laws for effective speaking, the first seven are: know thy audience!"
- Be authentic. Sharing who you are involves letting the audience experience your emotion. They will feel the emotion in your story when you do. This requires a degree of vulnerability that many leaders have a hard time exposing. I encourage you to try.
- Keep them guessing. Professor Peter Gruber tells us “a great story is never fully predictable through foresight, but it is projectable through hindsight." It is how you reveal the nature of your characters, their difficulties, and how they overcome their obstacles that tantalize your audience.
- Keep them engaged. Involve the audience by asking questions, adding humor, painting vivid pictures, and using the power of you. One of my favorites is to put the audience in my stories. It's as easy as saying "imagine you're walking down the street..." You turn an ‘I’ story into a “we’ story. The whole audience experiences your story together.
- Practice the paradox of presents. I strongly urge you to wing it when you present, but only after obsessively practicing. That's practicing the paradox of presents. You practice, drill, and rehearse until you know your story inside and out. Then, as you start telling the story, you become fully present with the audience. Only after lots of practice are you able to come across unrehearsed.
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