How the Environment Affects the Uniqueness of the Personality

Through the time you spend with people, you get to understand their habits, what makes them sad and what makes them happy; you get to know the good things that they do and you get to know the bad and you become a part of them as they become a part of you. It's the cycle of life where one person leaves a group to become a part of another and another until they finally find what they are looking for. They become a part of one group that makes them feel most comfortable; some sort of community that doesn't label itself under any circumstances with different views and characteristics.
In other words, you do not only get to know the people you are around, but you actually become a part of them. Your identity is not only what you are, but what you do, the people around you, the people you accept and the ones you simply talk to. You pick some of the habits along the way and you become a mixture of the cultures you have lived in. You are a part of the environments that you have lived in and you are not so unique because all your qualities are not unique, but they belong to others as well. What makes you unique is the combination that attributes to your personality.

But then, as you discover the good and bad sides of people, you get the privilege of taking the good side and applying it to your personality and your life and you get to let go of all that is bad. For example, if there is a group of people you hang out with that are very good at politics but they smoke, then you should learn from them the political side yet you should not smoke like they do.

So, you should take the good side of anything and letting go of the bad side. But that does not mean that you should stop hanging out with a certain group of people because they do something bad. You should, in fact, attempt to support them and show the outcome of what they do wrong. You should try to make them understand that what they are doing is not right and that they cannot ruin their greatness with something so unnecessary such as that.

You are the product of many things and your personality, with its good sides and its bad sides, only resembles things that you have been through, survived or still are going through. You are not very unique if you are divided into a number of qualities, but you are unique because you are many elements put together. No one is like the other because everyone goes through different routes in life, even identical twins, that have not been apart in their lives, are still unique in their own rites.

What you could do to become a better person is to pick the good qualities and the positive sides of each person's personality and life and apply them to your own so you could be a person who is capable of dealing with different situations; a person who has different sides of the same personality and one who would get what is good and leave what is bad. You could be the closest to perfection.