How to be…Yourself!

How often have you thought, before talking, with the fear that your listener might misunderstand what you are saying?

For most of us, this happens quite often. Nowadays, within the existing cultural context, we want our leaders, our role models to be authentic. However, we do not apply this in our own lives. We learn at school, as well as in our family, that fitting in with our environment, being similar to others around us and not being different is considered important.

A typical example of this, is when we ask a child: “are you a good boy/girl?”. To a large extent, this question is translated as: “Were you behaving? Were you calm and silent?”. The absurd fact is that those considered to be, “successful people” are persons that are distinguished and are being themselves. Let’s explore a simple way that enables you to be… Yourself!

Be aware of your strengths

For example: I have been studying since I was 18 and I like expanding my knowledge. However, in none of the university classes that I attended did I study a course which helped me know myself better.

Most people, study logistics, marketing, etc. without being aware of their personal strengths. Most people, are able to list 5 weaknesses that they have, how many, however, are able to recall and specify 5 of their strengths?

There are many online internet tests, which can help you identify your strengths. My suggestion to the clients I coach, is the strengths Finder 2.0. In a scientific way, you will make the first step by uncovering your strengths. You are full of positive power and inner beauty. It is up to you to unleash them!

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