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How to Keep a Woman Happy

Topic: Marriage CoachingBy Steve HiltonPublished Recently added

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Advice for men about relationships.
My first question to you is ,Do you know what makes a women happy? Let me give you a few points.

1. Just be yourself , I know that this sounds really dumb but there are those of us that think we have to put on a show. Not it is not all our fault it comes from being so blasted by the advertising world that we have to look a certain way,drive this kind of car and look like this to be attractive .When really all it takes is to be confident in who you are .This goes back to the airiest of time women find confidence very sexy .Have you every noticed that sometimes a man that is not so attractive has this beautiful lady with him that is because she is attracted to his level of confidence which is more is more attractive to him.

2. Guys it is the little things that matter , If she likes jelly beans surprise her with some , my father-in-law once told me that the best investment that I could make was a dozen roses . The lesson is that a little special attention can go along way towards a good relationship . So many times we men think that we have to do these “ grand gestures” to make an impression ,when it is the little things that add up to a much larger picture . Which leads me to point number.

3. Appreciate her ,never take her for granted . Let her know that she has value to you as a person and as part of your life not as a possession .

4.Guys when you are with her keep the wandering eyes to a minimum , ladies don't really understand the primal instinct that is in us ,they just think that we are comparing them to that and they need to feel special. This comes from the biological drive for monogamy in women. Women are looking for a lifetime partner for a man with whom they can raise children.

5.Make her laugh ! We men think that looks are most important to a lady but research has found that they value a sense of humor higher than looks . This is a very important point to remember.

6.This may seem strange to us but find something that is of great interest to her and develop an appreciation for it , because this will show her that you value her and she will think that you are one in a million for it.

7.Once you get the girl, it may seem like you don’t have to try anymore – at least as far as grooming goes. And, while women are less sensitive to looks than men are, they still like a man who makes an attempt. So, shave on weekends. In short don't get sloppy you can lose her just as easy as you got her.

She’s going to need to know that she can integrate you into her circle of family and friends. A man must be part of her larger life, especially after the first few weeks of passion are over. So, make an effort to get along with her girlfriends and impress her parents. A woman relies on her social network to validate her relationship choices. Make an effort.

8.Always take her feeling into consideration ladies are not as stable and more complicated than us part of this is hormonal . Learn to understand her moods and you will be able to stay on the right side of her.
9.The final piece of advice on relationships is to be open to trying new things. At the beginning of a relationship, everything is new from the types of dates you arrange to the way you kiss. But, after a while, these things become routine. If you find that your relationship has fallen into a rut, shake things up. Try something new. It will go a long way to keeping your relationship healthy.

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I am a 52 year old man that has been married to the same lady for over 22yrs. I have written articles for some other ezine and people seem to like my down to earth advice . I do not claim to know it all ,but I have bumped into a couple things that have help me have a great life with my spouse . If you have found this helpful and would like to learn more check out this site . it has done wonders for me
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