Is My Spouse Cheating? Ask the Magic 8-Ball of Cheating - 7 Sure Fire Cheating Spouse Signs

You have a gut feeling that your spouse is cheating but you're wondering if your intuition is right and want some outside confirmation. Here are some common scenarios. Then we'll ask the Magic 8-Ball of Cheating a question, shake it and see what answer appears.
1. My wife's friends and co-workers are suddenly acting uncomfortable whenever I'm in their presence or they just seem to be avoiding me. I don't think it's my imagination. I think they are hiding something from me.
"Magic 8-Ball, do you think I'm just being paranoid?
Magic 8-Ball says, "Very doubtful."
2. My husband always says he's going to the gym but even though he's gone for hours almost every day, his gym clothes never seem to be dirty and he's not losing any weight.
"Magic 8-Ball, is it possible that he's going someplace other than the gym?"
Magic 8-Ball says, "Signs point to yes."
3. My wife says that she's working a lot of extra overtime. I'm not noticing any additional money in our bank account or on her pay stub. I questioned her about it and she got all nervous and gave excuses that didn't make sense.
"Magic 8-Ball, I know she's lying about the overtime. I also think it points to a sign that she's cheating on me, right?
Magic 8-Ball says, "Without a doubt."
4. OK, maybe it's just my imagination but I don't think so. We use one kind of soap at home. But, when my husband comes home late at night, to me he smells like a different brand of soap. They don't have showers where he works. I'm beginning to smell a rat.
"Magic 8-Ball, does something smell fishy to you?"
Magic 8-Ball says, "As I see it, yes."
5. Lately, whenever my husband's cell phone rings at home, he gets very jumpy and quickly runs out of the room to answer the call. The call is usually short and then suddenly he says that he has some kind of emergency and has to leave. I'm starting to get the feeling that he's just making up excuses to get out of the house to be with someone else.
"Magic 8-Ball, do you agree that I should take this as a sign that he's cheating on me?"
Magic 8-Ball says, "Yes - definitely."
6. My wife left for work this morning but she forgot her cell phone and I wanted to make sure she didn't think she'd lost it. So I called her office and her secretary said that she wasn't there because she was home sick. Now I'm mad that she lied to them and lied to me when she didn't tell me she was taking the day off. And if she's not home sick, where is she? In the past, she wasn't the type to just play hooky without telling me. Lately, I'm not so sure. She's been acting strangely. I think that she spent the day with another man.
"Magic 8-Ball, when she shows up tonight, should I confront her about her supposed sick day?"
Magic 8-Ball says, "It is certain."
7. My husband just bought a new cell phone but didn't tell me about it. I found out about it by accident. But his old cell phone is still working. I can only think of one reason why he'd need a secret second phone.
"Magic 8-Ball, if he's hiding this from me; are there other things he's hiding as well?"
Magic 8-Ball says, "It is decidedly so."
While it might be helpful to really have a Magic 8-Ball of Cheating to confirm your suspicion, chances are, if you have reason to think your spouse is cheating on you, you're probably right. Confront your spouse with your doubts and, if possible, any signs of cheating you discovered. Burying your head isn't going to make the problem go away. The only way to resolve a predicament like this and save your marriage is to meet it head on.