Is Valentin's Day upsetting You?

Valentine’s Day blog
Is Valentine’s Day is upsetting you?
Is walking into a store, turning your computer on and seeing hearts,or hearing people talk about buying romantic gifts and presents upsetting you? If so, it is time for a change. If you are married and this is happening, it is definitely a time to figure out what is going on with your relationship. With the desire and will you can make this years Valentine’s Day your best ever. Don’t wait to see what your spouse does, go ahead and do something really special for him/her. Make it about giving not getting. If you feel you have out grown your marriage and you find yourself dreaming about starting over, maybe it’s time to do the self work needed to find out.

IF you are single and upset about the big day- this is your big chance to turn your love life around. Feeling depressed because you don’t have a Valentine is a sure sign that you have doubts about finding your soulmate. It means you have doubts and fears about love. It means you don’t feel confident enough to “know” at the right time it will happen. Feeling this way is hardly anyway to magnetize a great partner.

Instead, why don’t you buy a card for the future love of your life and write to him/her! Put on something sexy (when’s the last time you did that ?) and take yourself out for a great dinner. Not everyone is in a relationship and you never know who will be in the restaurant, maybe someone who has a single son, brother, friend. Change your mindset and you change your situation. Buy yourself fresh roses and dark chocolate. Write some cute emails on the dating site of your choice. Email someone you have a crush on! The possibilities are endless. It is all about your attitude. Positive people attract positive situations, negative draws more negative.

It is time to take control of your situation and start focusing on the solution rather tha “your situation”. Are you a happy, confident person? Are you letting past break ups and relationship disappointments block your energy? Do you have a wish board yet? Do you manifest or just complain? Do you feel sorry for yourself or are you excited to meet“the one”? These are the things you really have to think about so your love life can change.

Your day will come, there is no way that it won’t but you have to be ready for it. I know first hand what steps are needed to prepare yourself for the “right” love. I have written a book based on my experiences so I can help others get to this place of confidence and “knowing”. It isn’t about “doing” the right things and going to the right places, it’s about being still and learning how to be “you”. He/she will find you when you do, I promise!