Loving the Un-loved Is Not Only Moral, But Self Rewarding

The most difficult thing to do in life is to love a person you dislike and hate. But some great advices from the bible will help you make a difference for this kind of person.

‘Love your enemy as you love yourself’.
How do you love a person you hated the most? It would be a lot easier to hate the once you love. Just one mistake from the person you love and it would be easy to feel hateful. Yes it’s difficult to love a person who does not even know how to love. But you are blessed with loved and gratefulness in your heart and it would be without meaning if you just feel it and not share it to someone who needs it. Even feelings can be shared as well. Not all things or living is bought with money. Every person needs love from someone. And no matter how a person pretends to be independent and strong, the absence of love from his life will eventually make him fall.

‘If someone throws stone at you, throw back also but with bread instead of stone’
A natural reaction of a person when hurt is to hurt back. You always want to get even. But the great Bible teaches us instead to forgive the person who caused us pain. It’s not for the other person’s benefit but your benefit. The feeling has greater hold of our actions. So if we feel hurtful and we want to give back to the world what we feel, the natural reaction of the world is to get even also. But when you forgive instead and understand the person, the world rewards you shows goodness to you. That’s the beginning of your blessings and mercy.

Many great writings are printed and spoken to in public to teach people how to love someone we hate. It’s easy to listen and write but when reality hits us with the same situation we still resort to the common reaction of an individual and that is to hate the person. But we forgot that these thoughts and advices from great minds is what made them great and successful. They chose to show love and mercy instead of hating someone. This disposition they have in life helped them reached the success they dreamed of. The world gives back to the person the goodness of his heart with goodness of the world.

Understanding the person’s feelings or past that made him hateful and un-loving is the start of loving the person. When you begin to understand the ill feelings he felt, you will feel merciful towards the person. You will feel pity on the way he harbors pain and misery in life.

Influence the person’s disposition of being hateful by loving him and showing to him that there is more to life than pain. Let him feel important and cared for. Bringing back his love for his self.