One Powerful Message to love yourself and your life more

Dear Friend, Do you want to love yourself and your life more? Are you looking for ways to feel good about yourself?

I understand that sometimes in life, we may feel not-so-good about ourselves or our lives.

At that time, we may keep complaining about all the things that happen in our lives. Sometimes we talk to ourselves in negative ways for many times a day, every day.

And as we all know, this does not bring any good things into our lives. Most of the times, it sabotages us instead…

Like my case when I was still a girl,…

I remembered I kept complaining and crying to myself many days for years why I was born as a girl in this family.

Even I am a Thai person, my grandfather/grandmother came from China. So in our family, we have many Chinese cultures.

And one BIG thing I felt as a girl in my Chinese family is that my parent care and take care a son and a daughter tremendously differently.

My brother will always get all the good things, while I and my sisters won’t get. And when my parents are not in good mood, they will yell at me and my sisters only.

I got this kind of feeling many years and felt sad about it all the times.
Until THAT day I remembered that I cried to myself very hard in front of the mirror. While I cried, I kept talking to myself “Why am I born in this family?” for quite a long time.
Then…. …there’s a voice coming into my head. “If I’m already born, What can I do to make my life better?” When I heard this question in head, I stopped crying suddenly. And looked at myself in the mirror. And I started to think what I can do to make my life better…Many things I can do has shown up in my head. At the moment, I felt better about myself and my life. Even I cannot tell you where that voice came from. What I know is that this powerful question message changes my life forever. So friend, If you think that everything not-good happen in your life, Ask yourself “What can I do to make it better?” If you feel sad that you’ve done something wrong and cause bad things in your life, forgive yourself “I know I’ve done something wrong in the past. I forgive myself on that.” and ask yourself ”What can I do to make my life better?” …keep smiling…keep shining… With Love, Sally Beam :)