Parents Beware of Finstagram

You have surely heard of Instagram, the photo sharing social network, but what about "Finstagram?" If you are like most parents, you have rules about the social media practices of your kids. However, once you learn about Finstagram, those might all go out the window.

When you combine the words "fake" and "Instagram," you get Finstagram. Essentially, these are fake, or alte ative, Instagram accounts that are created by teens, for the most part. These accounts can be used for harmless laughs, such as sharing embarrassing pictures with your close circle of friends, or for harmful deeds, such as hiding alcohol or drug use from parents. Finstagram accounts are also commonly used for bullying.

You can look at your child's Instagram account and see the innocent angel that you believe you have raised. But, do they have a Finstagram account that shows a different side? It's possible, and you might even be able to find it by using the Find Friends feature on the software. Of course, it's possible that your child has linked their Finstagram to a new email address or even name.

On top of all of this, kids are using Finstagram accounts to do things that would never be acceptable on their "real" Instagram accounts. For instance, there have been instances where these fake accounts are used to post inappropriate or altered photos of their classmates in inappropriate situations. In some cases, things get so serious that the schools, themselves, have to contact Instagram to get the accounts shut down.

Even if you think that you have nothing to worry about with your own kids, it might be worth it to do a check on them. You can certainly ask your child if they have an account, and they might be forthcoming and tell you. Odds are, however, that they won't. In fact, about 90% of Finstagram accounts are unknown, so it is the parent's responsibility to look for the signs.

Parent should have all passcodes to access the device and its applications. Or the child can't have a phone. Non-negotiable. Done deal.

Sit down with your child to talk about their usage of social media, and the repercussions of their actions on social media. You also might want to talk to other parents you know about Finstagram accounts. These accounts might be for innocent fun, but they could also ruin someone's life.