Practical uses for Cybe etic Systemics in everyday life
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There is an invisible force all around us and its application in everyday life is more valuable than most people understand.
The invisible force is a real thing,and although we cannot see it or feel it, we can appropriatte its power in ways that benefit us hugely.
Cybe
etic Systemics is commonly known as Locus of Control. When we look around us in every moment of every day, we see control staring back at us, asking us what it wants us to do.
Now that may sound a little strange, but the power of control resides within itself, and it may be placed where needed.
Right now in this moment the light beam that has radiated from the screen that you now look at is controlling your very moment.
It happens at 186 000 miles per second... and the background processes that enable you to understand happen even faster.
There are 4 loci of control.
1.Who controls who
2.Who controls what
3.What controls who
4.What controls what
If we were all able to get the first one right and truly understand it, the world would be at peace, if the person we were controlling was ourselves.
We get angry because of what other people say and do, and because things don't work the way that they should.
So in essence as crazy as it may sound, those peoples actions, or words control the way that we act, if we allow them to.
If control was a manifested thing though; that is if it was something that we could touch and hold, we would see that its value would be immeasurable.
Imaging for a second that it was a tangible thing, and I were to offer it to you,and then answer the following questions:
Would you take it?
Would you keep it?
Would you swop it for $2000000.00? Some people would!!!
And yet if we look at the facts most people would not earn that in their lifetime, and yet they go to work for a salary.
This concept in itself is profound, as so many people in the world are controlled by a system of poverty, in which they are motivated by the fear of being poor, and in the process give their control away to the system, rather than taking control of their lives and becoming motivated by faith and a prosperity mindset, one that will enable them to unleash the good things in their living.
This article is the tip of the iceberg when it comes to this subject, and yet if you were able to take control of your thinking for a long enough period and:
1. Get vision for a future that you desire.
2. Take control of your attitude in every situation.
3. Discover you purpose right now.
4. Live with Passion - Not based on emotional energy.
5. Clearly define an action plan, and then act based according to it.
6. Live with principle centred discipline that focuses on what works
...then your life would be one that impacts the whole world, if that is what you desire.
In closing remember this: True power does not lie in what you can control in other people, but rather what you can unleash in their lives.
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Nick van Tonder is a dynamic facilitator with 30 plus years’ experience in Public Speaking and Promotion. He was born in Kensington, Gauteng in 1972, his extrovert personality and welcoming smile have resulted in friendships and relationships internationally with people from various walks of life.
Nick has authored 4 books, “A Life Worth Living”, “The Root of The Fruit”, “Service Leadership” and “The Penny Dropper”. Nick dedicates his time to teaching people to achieve significance in every area of their lives; he lives out and teaches sound business and personal principles.
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