Selling yourself at your next interview
Written by James E Lynch
The Art of Selling Yourself at your next interview.
“If nothing is ever sold, nothing will ever be created.” Buck Rodgers (President of IBM)
If you don’t sell, promote, and make yourself look interesting, you will not achieve the bright and fulfilling future that you desire.
“How can we say good things about ourselves, when no-one ever says anything good about us?” This is a questio
I am often asked at lectures.
It’s a fact that people don’t give enough praise and encouragement to others and are more inclined to criticise than praise. If you have a good meal out, do you praise and compliment the chef and staff? Probably not. But if you’ve had a bad meal, you complain bitterly and tell others.
Today you need to be your own private motivator and coach. When someone praises you, take it on board in a positive way and enjoy it. You earned it. Don’t be Joe Cool, be Joe Positive! Positive statements and affirmations, self worth, and self praise are really important. Ultimately you control who you are!
“No one can put you down unless you let them.” Eleanor Roosevelt. (Wife of 32nd US President)
Think about this!
Before you pick up the phone, write your résumé or go for an interview, figure out the 4W’s:
• What do you want to be?
• What are you selling?
• Who are you selling to?
• What’s in it for them?
When the answers to these questions are sorted out, as in defined and quantified, then you are on the way to being able to sell yourself effectively. This process will work in any negotiation.
What do you want to be?
Most people don’t really know what they want to be, or why they want the job. They think they do, but when asked, they come up with lightweight answers that don’t convince the interviewer. Your answers and delivery need to be strong and confident. You need to define your goals, vision and passions, then demonstrate that you want to add value. People are looking for performers, not passengers!
“You can’t inspire another person unless you are inspired first.” Anon.
What are you selling?
Simply, what’s good or special, about you. The things you have done or achieved, that you can talk about in a Behavioural Based way. Points of interest that differentiate you from the crowd and make the interviewer feel comfortable about saying “YES” to you.
“Son, if you weren’t doing something different to everyone else, then you’d be just the same as everyone else and I wouldn’t be interested in you!” Sam Phillips (of Sun Records. The man who discovered Elvis Presley)
Who are you selling to?
Whatever position or opportunity you are applying for, each has an identity and culture. You need to tap into what makes it unique or different. This requires research and a thorough understanding of what’s being offered to you. Then define what they are looking for, both now and in the future.
What’s in it for the interviewer?
This one’s very important! Forget about you, and put their needs, wants and expectations first. I’m not saying you don’t have needs and rights. Of course you do, but given that you know what the perfect outcome would be, use a bit of reverse psychology. Draw up a list and start thinking like an interviewer. It’s sad but true, that everyone thinks about themselves first, or the WIIFM – What’s In It For Me! Get the balance right and you’ll be on track. Every business wants to be successful. Let them know that you want to be part of that future vision too.
N.B. Remember life’s all about selling, trying to get what you want and convincing people to do what you want. If you don’t sell yourself in an interview, who will? If someone else does sell themself just before or after you, they will most likely get the place.
Instant researchr
When I ask young people what sort of mobile phone they would like, most answer, “IPhone.” For whatever reason you think you may need this phone, the real one is because Apple or the sales person in the store pitched it correctly. This phone appeals to a target market, the buyer, you! Take a tip from the people that know and pitch yourself correctly.
Going fishingr
What do Pepsi, Nike, Apple and going fishing have in common? Capturing a market segment or catching a big one. If you’re going for an interview, liken it to a fishing trip.
And what are you? The bait of course! You need to hook your interviewer’s attention, reel them in and land the job. To succeed, use the right bait, fish in the right spot and take the right skills with you.
It’s all about identifying skills and abilities (features and benefits), packaging them into prove it statements and then selling yourself. I am not talking about being arrogant or boastful. I am talking about taking that space in time called “the interview” to do what’s best for you, sell yourself and win the job.
Good luck in your next interview, James E Lynch
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About the Author
James Lynch is a recognised leader in interview skills coaching and behavioral based interview techniques. Developing a targeted resume and cover letter, or the skills to succeed in that all important interview, come with knowledge.
Since 2001 James has been a successful keynote speaker and presenter delivering over 100 lectures a year, energising and educating over 100,000 students and adults. His fast paced, fun and interactive program empowers people to: "think good things and say good things about themselves. To sell and differentiate themselves from the crowd." Everyone has a good story to tell and at the end of one of James programs, students and individuals have the knowledge to be "modestly confident in their skills and abilities and to get the right message across when it counts in that all important interview!"
James can help you develop the communication skills needed to create a positive first impression and gain that all important job, promotion or course selection by creating an outstanding curriculum vitae and targeting the interviewer’s needs and expectations. You can learn how to handle behavioural interview questions and have the right interview answers.
James Lynch is the author of the book; “U CAN 2 guide to: Successful Interview Skills,” which comes in two versions, one for students and the other for adults. They are must read books for anyone heading off for an interview. The original book for students, was extensively reviewed in the Career0ne section of The Age, The Sunday Telegraph, The Herald Sun, The Advertiser and regional newspapers. It was also reviewed in radio interviews on ABC 774, 3AW, FM 3YB, 94.1 FM and BNet. In 2008, James was a feature guest on Network Ten’s 9am show with David & Kim.
James was the inaugural winner of the Origin/3AW Small Business award in 2007.
With over 20 years in senior management and business ownership, including 6 years in executive recruitment, with 3 years as a head-hunter in the finance sector, James fully understands the expectations of employers and candidates. He knows the way the interview process operates, and more importantly, the preparation needed to succeed in today's highly competitive job market.
James Lynch has created original and practical Interview Skills Programs, to help students and individuals, senior executives and corporations, to maximise their effectiveness in the interview process. Whether you're recruiting someone to make the difference, or applying for a position, your spoken and unspoken messages have a huge impact on the interview outcome and the impression that you leave. It is not a matter of luck!
James is an experienced trainer, holding a Certificate 4 in workplace training. His approach is forthright, down to earth and practical. Common sense and humour coupled with the latest communication methods ensure that participants learn quickly and receive tangible information that can be implemented immediately.
Having operated as an employer, recruiter and specialist trainer within the recruitment industry and key-note speaker; James can add real value to schools, individuals and companies who participate in his interactive Interview Skills Workshops. He also offers individual interview coaching sessions.
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