So You're Breaking Up...

PART 1

So you’re breaking up; as a friend said to me during my last break-up process, “That’s always hard, even if it is the right thing.”

I feel she summed it up precisely. The ending of a relationship is a process, just like any loss. It requires grief, strength, clearing, and caring. In order to move on more wholly, reaching out in life to embrace the next and better relationship the universe has in store for you—it’s best to take the time you need to heal.

Since my 18th birthday I have been in 10 relationships that have ended. They all finished for different reasons—we were going different places, we lived on different continents, betrayal (my own and my partner’s), and an inability to commit, just to name a few. Through each partnering and each ending I learned important information about myself, and how we move on.

When the process of my last break-up went so smoothly and lovingly, I realized that I had mastered something that others would want to know. It was then that I sat down and wrote the outline for my ebook: From Heartbreak to Wholeness: 12 Steps to Healing from Break-up.

This is an excerpt from From Heartbreak to Wholeness: 12 Steps to Healing from Break-up. Stay tuned for more excerpts as Aimée walks you through the steps one by one.