So You Think Your Boss Hates You

Aloha!

During career consultations, I frequently receive questions from distraught individuals who feel unhappy in their jobs, seeking insight into the treatment they receive at work. As those of you who have worked with me know, clarity and action steps are created from two different perspectives. Firstly on the physical level to help you gain insight into the wacky drama and odd dynamics going on. Secondly on the energetic, metaphysical level to help you see the bigger picture in its relevance to your life path, put the drama into perspective, and move forward having grown more whole.

Seriously, your boss rarely hates you. Even though, according to the hilariously insightful actor/comedia
Redd Foxx, may he rest in power, “Boss spelled backwards is double s-o-b and that means two of them,” your boss likely doesn’t even have time to think about hating you. S/he has their own troubles to deal with, and cannot share those with you. Sometimes the issues your boss grapples with are personal, other times professional. Either way, you’re more likely to be the unwitting scapegoat rather than the true reason for any valid negative emotion. Why, and what can you do about it?

Unless you’re being harassed, abused, or held back in some way from promotion or compensation, then the, “Why?” of it all holds little relevance. It’s drama. It’s silly drama. Just make it funny. Detach yourself from it, spend time with those who know and love the real you, and let it go; it’ll pass. There’s nothing worth gaining insight into. If there’s a repeat cycle of silly drama in which you find yourself the scapegoat at work, then getting support can help you see the pattern. Then you will be empowered to rise above it and either ignore it with a smile or embrace a future in a new work environment – perhaps even develop an entire new career!

Now, about that bigger picture: As human beings we tend to remain where we are until we become uncomfortable. There’s no reason to change anything otherwise, right? So, to cut to the chase, if your Spirit has outgrown your employment situation, from a metaphysical standpoint the Universe will collaborate with your higher self to create one irritating scenario after another. Think of it as a healing process – if you’ve ever been cut or injured, then you know the feeling of the itch that occurs before the healing is complete. That itch doesn’t last forever, but it’s a necessary step in the process.

When you are ready to step further into your power, understand your life path more deeply, and joyously create your new job or career foundation, contact me: info@psychic-services.com. I will send you details to qualify for a career transition strategy session, and will cover the expense of that session for those who are a good match for customized support services.