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Stop Your Past from Creating Your Future, Today

Topic: Personal DevelopmentBy Denise Starrett, Energetic LeaderPublished Recently added

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When resonating at a high frequency of energy, we attract what we want into our lives with little or no effort. Ironically, while it takes a lot of effort to become a master in what you do, there is no real effort necessary in the thing we can truly master, which is being who we are.

So what holds us back from living the lives we desire?
Some people attribute the lack of having what they want to fate – that their lives are somehow “meant to be” the way they are. Many people don’t like the concept of fate, however, because it negates free will. But what if neither the traditional concept of fate, nor free will, really existed for most people? An unusual concept called self-fate helps explain why so many of us don’t have what we really want.
Self-fate is the idea that because our past is dominating our thought processes, and because most people are not consciously living in the moment, our past actually creates our future. Because we are making choices based on our past experiences, we cannot change our future unless the control of the past is removed, and we choose in the now. So self-fate really means that for most of us, fate does exist, and we do not have free will. It is us who creates our fate because we are imprisoned by the past. We have pre-determined choices that we are programmed to make, and our past does the programming.
Let me share Susan’s experience. She was unhappy with her relationships and said she felt like she met the same kind of men over and over again. She complained that men are all the same, looking for the same thing. She believed that she would never find a relationship that would be mutually respectful and serving, as opposed to the relationships she had had, where she felt emotionally abused. It’s no wonder she felt this way; she had many experiences that created those beliefs. In fact, it’s quite normal that she would believe what she did, which posed a real challenge. Since she saw men as disrespectful, abusive, and manipulating, she was putting out “victim” energy. She was being a victim to her own beliefs. And what was the result of this? The vibration she emitted was picked up by those whose energy matched those beliefs: men who would take advantage of her. To them, she was an easy target. And so, she actually created her future relationships, and would have continued to do so if she had not changed her sense of self, or, who she was BEING, in her relationships.
The traditional concept of fate proposes that our lives are pre-determined by an outside source. Self-fate, however, is something that we can control. We can reprogram our futures so that we achieve our unlimited potential. Actually,
there are 7 powerful choices You already have right at your command that help you create your life as You choose!

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Denise Starrett and the Center for Energetic Leadership provide energetic makeovers for leaders and organizations.

Denise's professional purpose is to help people see who they truly are and boldly express that truth as leaders.

After 10 years managing highly specialized HR programs for global companies like Kraft Foods, Cisco, and Ernst & Young, and living the single girl expatriate life in Paris and London, Denise came home and stepped on the path to becoming a masterful coach.

Denise is an engaging communicator and dynamic partner dedicated to creating innovative solutions and inspiring people to express who they are in how they lead. Her programs offer not only the information people need to unlock their true potential but also a unique blend of joyful insights, high consciousness principles, and practical tools.

As her clients experience personal transformation, Denise is there to support them through the discomfort of stretching personal boundaries and to celebrate in the exuberance of expanding into who they are.

Denise's credentials include an MBA from Thunderbird School of Global Management and Bachelor of Arts Degree in French and Economics from Randolph-Macon College. She is a Certified Professional Coach, iPEC accredited Energy Leadership Index Master Practitioner, Pilates Instructor, and NLP Practitioner. She coaches in both English and French.

She attributes her greatest leaps in personal growth to her cross cultural experiences, having studied or worked in France, Germany, Switzerland, England, and now back in the United States where she currently balances work with her most fulfilling role as Aunt Denise.

Check out Denise's favorite personal transformation tools, including the Energy Leadership Index Assessment, MBT physiological footware, and the emWave PSR from HeartMath.

It was in her discovery of ballroom dancing that Denise learned leaders need also be good followers. "Life is your dance partner, take the lead!"

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