The 7 Most Disappointing, Yet Empowering Love Life Realities

No one, including us, enjoys being reminded ofnsome of the love life realities that we’ve deducednthrough our work since 1992, especially if theynplace great emphasis on romantic traditions.

Many have told us that they think we’re toonfatalistic in our views and too straightforwardnin how we present them. Though it may benunsettling at first, objectively considering andnperhaps eventually accepting ideas such asnthose below can improve your life, increasenyour peace of mind, and empower you.

1) Love relationships are wonderful in that theynusually offer delightful romance, companionship,nand other benefits. However, they are, from anspiritual perspective, primarily for personalngrowth and achieving various earthly missionsnsuch as bringing children into the world, importantngoals, financial obligations, and work that willninfluence others in significant ways.

2) Relationships may not always give you (you
personality) what you want, but they alwaysnoffer potential for spiritual growth. Fortunately,nyou have f.ree will to make the most of you
situations. Creative visualization (e.g., consciousncreation) can help to bridge the gap to thenexperiences you desire with a lover, but don’t getndown on yourself when you eventually find thatnit only works in conjunction with fated love lifencircumstances and it won’t totally over-ride roughnkarmic conditions. Why must you face you
unique karmic conditions (good and bad)?
Because your soul wants you to.

3) Sometimes you are attracted to certain peoplenbecause of your current life programming, muchnof which is rooted in early life experiences. Fromna spiritual perspective though, much of life, evennyour childhood experiences, is karmic.

4) Past life karma is the main reason you arensometimes drawn to those who may seem tonhave more of a negative than positive influencenin your life; you have unfinished business ornlessons to experience together. Additionally,nour findings indicate that the subconsciousnmind’s complexities are firmly linked to pastninca
ations, not only this lifetime. Your soul’snjou
ey and the rewarding and challengingnea
ed karma from multitudes of lifetimes hasnat least the same or greater symbolic impactnthan early life and societal programming andnalso lays the groundwork for it.

5) Alte
atively, a romantic connection could benfor other karmic reasons, such as a test to let go,nheal, and move on, and sometimes it’s mostlynabout tangible or intangible rewards.

6) It’s important to value each relationship fornits uniqueness and avoid falling into the trap ofncomparing love connections to the ideal relationshipn(those portrayed in Hollywood movies and romancennovels), which only serves to foster disappointmentnand unhappiness.

7) A good relationship bond is either there or itnisn’t and is based upon your past life karma withneach other, level of self-awareness, personalncyclical timing, and degree of challenging ornrewarding individual love life karma. However,neven the roughest connection has its enjoyablenmoments. Additionally, subconscious fears andndefenses play heavily into the dynamics of allnrelationships. We’ve found handwriting analysisnto be the most accurate form of subconsciousnpersonality analysis.

Also note that the subconscious mind dominatesnthe conscious mind, is clever beyond you
conscious awareness, many subconscious fearsnand defenses are embedded in your essence afte
being formed over lifetimes and there are nonsimple solutions to totally remove them. Evennmanaging to effectively identify them in the firstnplace is difficult. Simply “watching your thinking”nand reciting a few affirmations over the coursenof a few weeks or even months in an attempt tonrid yourself of the trouble spots of you
unconscious mind will have little effect duento them being so firmly rooted in your mind.
Fortunately, you can work to identify, adjust to,nand even modify subconscious blocks in time,nsuch as through the methods we promote.

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