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The Most Dangerous Person In Your Life

Topic: Personal DevelopmentBy John Di LemmePublished Recently added

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You may say that you have no such person in your life, but
most likely you do and you just don’t know who they are. The
majority of these people will not intentionally hurt you. It’s
their actual character traits and their habits that will have a
negative effect on your life.

So, what do these people look like? Most of them don’t have
a certain look, but they do have many of the following traits.

These people
• Constantly speak and negative
• See no light at the end of the tunnel
• Allow failure to be an option
• Don’t believe in dreams (yours or theirs)
• Want to “make” money rather than “earn” it
• Always have an opinion, which is negative
• Become complacent in their lives
• Make decisions that result in failure

Do you have these people on your Mastermind Team? If so, what
are you going to do about it? You have two choices.

You can allow those people to control YOUR destiny with their negative opinions, failure mindset and inability to dream.

OR

You can Love them, Leave them and Show them. What does that mean? You simply continue to care for them as a friend, associate, etc., but you no longer allow them to negatively impact your life. If they don’t like attending personal development seminars, then don’t invite them. If they don’t like your positive mastermind team members, then stop allowing them to join your mastermind team gatherings. How do you show them? You forge forward towards the achievement of your Why despite any obstacle that you encounter. Those people will start to see that you are serious and nothing will stop you!

I challenge you to look at the top ten people that you associate with in your life, write down their names and then beside their names write down what impact each person has on your life. If ANY of them are negative, then you have two choices. Which one will you chose?

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John Di Lemme was a 24-year-old stutterer working in his family art gallery that dreamed of becoming a world-renowned motivational speaker. Desperate to achieve his goal, he answered an ad that allowed him to break free of the art gallery and build his own business. Through his business, John built a massive marketing team of over 25,000 representatives in 10 countries and earned a seven figure passive residual income. Seven years later, John retired to Palm Beach, Florida where he continues to live the life of the rich and not so famous.

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