Tips For Approach Anxiety - Rejection Anxiety Strategies
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Today I want to talk about a simple nand effective (yet somewhat DANGEROUS) ntechnique that allows you to instantly napproach beautiful women in everyday nsituations without fear or nervousness.
You've never heard about this
'controversial' technique before.
How do I know? Because it's my nown creation, and I've never nrevealed it, until now.
But before I do, you need to nunderstand WHY this technique nworks so well. Let me explain ...
This technique is so effective nbecause it utilizes one of the ngreatest psychological motivators nthere is.
"The Fear of Loss"
Here's how it works: In life, njust because you WANT something n(like a hot girlfriend or a fancy ncar) doesn't mean you'll go out nand get it, right?
Why not? Because most of the ntime our own FEARS hold us back.
So how do we overcome our
FEARS and get what we want nout of life?
The answer is: Make fear work for nyou and NOT against you. Wouldn't nthat be nice for a change?
Here's how: Let me explain a ndisturbing scenario.
If a mad-man kidnapped one nof your family members, held na GUN to their head and said:
"If you don't approach 3 beautifulnwomen today, then I'm gonna SHOOT them!"
Would you do it? Of course you would!
You'd do it without nhesitation, wouldn't you?
And would you be SCARED of approaching nwomen? I doubt it. You'd be SO focused non saving another person's life that nyou wouldn't even have time to feel
"approach anxiety" right?nn**********************************
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So the above gun-to-their-head story was nan extreme example of how the "fear of loss" nprincipal works. But it wasn't real.
Now let me give you a REAL tried-and-testednmethod you can use to approach women without nfear - using the "fear or loss" principal.
Here's how it works: Invite a supportive friendnto meet you in a place with lots of women around.
(Like a shopping mall, grocery store, etc).
Then hand your friend $100 in five $20 bills.
(if you cant afford $100, then use a smaller namount, like $50 in five $10 bills).
Say to your friend: "My goal for the next
2 hours is to approach and talk to FIVE nattractive women. Each time I approachna woman, you give me back $20 (or $10).
If I successfully approach five womennwithin the next two hours - then I getnall of my money back, if I don't, thennyou get to keep my money. Got it?"
RULES: If I approach a woman and she nslaps me, pokes me in the eye, or kicks nme in the balls - it doesn't matter. My ngoal today is just to approach, nothing more.
And that my friend, is a fantastic way nto get over your fears of approaching women.
Now go out there and do it!
Your Friend,
Alexnhttp://www.alexcoulson.comn
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