Turn Those "What If's" Around
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Time To Turn Those “What If’s” Around In Your Favor
So many people get anxious, get worried, get stressed and let the thoughts of ‘What If’ start running through their head. Even with me just saying that, I’m sure almost everyone reading this immediately thought of the term ‘What If’ in a negative sense. That’s because that is unfortunately how most people view situations, from the standpoint of fear of what could go wrong. What if I lose my job. What if she doesn’t like me. What if I fail.
The big problem being created is that you are now planting those negative thoughts in your mind. You are giving them credence. You are giving them attention. You are giving them your focus, whether you know it or not. Now the fear, the anxiety, the stress just grows and feeds off itself. Then before you know it, imagine that, the What If becomes a reality. Well, what did you expect? That is what you put your focus on, your intentions were subconsciously bringing into your life what you were thinking about, what you were placing your energy on.
How do you stop this cycle? It takes concentration and belief, but here is what you need to do. Turn every What If into it’s positive counterpart. Every time you catch yourself saying a negative What If to yourself, immediately focus on the positive counter What If.
What if I lose my job? Now becomes; What If I get that promotion?
What if she doesn’t like me? Now becomes; What If she falls in love with me?
What if I fail? Now becomes; What If I nail this presentation and land this account?
Now take it a step further, and actually start to envision what that new What If looks like, and what it feels like. What does that promotion make you feel like? What does your life look like with that new paycheck coming in? What does a new love with your beautiful sweetheart look like, how does it make you feel? How does succeeding at whatever you are working on right now feel to you? What is the positive outcome of that success?
Don’t these new pictures in your mind feel much better? I better just right now in this very moment you are already feeling better. Stress and anxiety gone? Your intentions and focus are now on positively working for you to create your new reality of the positive What If. And guess what? That is precisely what is going to materialize in your life because you are focused on it, you are seeing it, you are feeling it, and you are believing in it.
So, What If this little blog just changed your life for the better???
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One generation must pass the torch of wisdom on to the next.
This site is all about the Wisdom, not who the provider is. This is so that you can use your imagination to associate your own personal truths to how the wisdom fits in your life, instead of having it presented as part of someone else’s truth and how it applies to their life. We all have our own truths and create our own realities with our beliefs, so this site is geared to present the wisdom in a way where you can focus completely on how it fits in with your beliefs; because your truth is why you are here in the first place. Your truth is what’s important to you right now in this present moment.
This page is not about me, or about promoting another content provider in the Personal Development industry (or what I like to refer to as Personal Success), but instead is about collecting and spreading wisdom, knowledge and experiences to the public. As someone in the Personal Success industry everyday I spend time studying, learning, and collecting wisdom from so many great leaders of our past and present. I sift through it all looking for the best, and have found many great insights that have helped me succeed in my endeavors. I believe this collection of wisdom should be shared with everyone, and not be held closely guarded by the few. As I come across inspiring wisdom I will share it here with you.
As this wisdom is presented on the site, I will do my best to decipher and interpret much of it, but then the real growth for all of us comes in the discourse and debate as we all create and share our own truths in each piece of wisdom. From differing opinions, differing perspectives, differing truths come a collaboration that pushes all wisdom further to a deeper understanding for all. This is good, this is healthy, and this is how we learn and grow our lives to become the image of greatness each one of us is pursuing.
Some of the wisdom you find on this site might be exactly what you need right now, as something led you here at this present moment. Other times what you find here might not fit a need in the moment, but I believe there is a time when you will find it comes in handy in your future endeavors.
The power of it all lies in learning how the wisdom, knowledge and experiences that are shared fit into your life. Thus this site is not about some personality teaching you how it works in their life, but it’s about learning it with your own face and mind attached to it from the start. It’s about creating your own image with you as the star. Wisdom will only truly make you wise if it fits with your truths and plays into your journey in finding your greatness.
Let’s share and spread the wisdom we learn. If you find something useful and inspiring, then sure be it that others you know could get the same benefit. So be a purveyor of wisdom and help pass the torch to others. The best wisdom comes from experiences, thus we all have wisdom to share.
Wisdoms Torch……pass it on.
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