We Burn Our Badges of Busyness

What are we teaching our girls?

You can be anything.
You can do anything.
You can have anything.

Now get going.

There is much to do.
So much that you will never feel like you've done it all.

Allow me to introduce you to your new lifetime companionr
Her name is "To-Do List"

She will follow you everywhere from now on
She will be there to greet you when you waker
She will hang out near you all day longr
And she will be there when you lay your head down to restr
Making sure that you don't forget her, even as you try to sleep

You will learn to wear her as a badge of honor
This flashing symbol of busy-ness
She thrives on attention,
lives for compliments,
She seeks out acknowledgments of her busyness,
and ability to 'get it all done'
without a sweat, and with a smile

She is not stingyr
She loves to share accolades with her sister super womenr
Swooning and commenting on their multi-tasking featsr
As if their doingness was the latest, most fabulous, all-the-rage hat

Some days you will be tired
And will want to set down the to dos
Take a break from your badge,
Whose weight you notice has become quiet heavy

You will try to unpin itr
Pull it, tear it, yank it,
But no matter how hard you try
Your badge of busyness
Will not budge

Your to-do listr
Doesn't take kindly to being set downr
Or Forgottenr
She is fiercely intent on
Staying alive
Remaining on center stager
Where she can always be see

What they (we) didn't tell your
When you accepted your to-do list as a rite of passager
And fashioned on your badge with pride
Was that try as you mightr
When you tire
No matter how hard you tryr
You can't hider
You can't runr
You can't even pin that relentless list on some other unsuspecting soul

But YOU can choose

Girl, woman, sister
You have a choice to NEVER pick upr
This badge of busyness
You have the choice to walk away and NEVER look backr
Not because you stop doing and achievingr
Which I know is one of your (my) greatest, unspoken fearsr
But because you know that you don't need ar
Badge of busyness or a never-ending list of to-dosr
To prove your worth

Stand tallr
Turn on your heel nowr
Do not follow usr
A generation of women who unknowningly ran down the aisle
To marry busy-ness
And ended up with a sense of selfr
Tied to 'what I've accomplished and gotten done in a day"

Turn away
Run awayr
And change your sense of self
for the good
of us all

As you turn awayr
We will burn our badges
And together we will change
The decree of women forever

"Yes I can do anything."
"Yes I can be anything."
"Yes I can have anything."

BUT NO ... I DON'T NEED TO DO BE AND HAVE EVERYTHING

I am valuable simply because I amr
Even if I never pick up another to dor
Even when I am doing nothingr
Especially when I am just beingr
I am worthy

Because I know the truth

I am enoughr
Simply because I am

And so are you.

Mother.
Sister.
Daughter.
Woman.