What was I thinking? The dilemma of the impulsive buyer
Written by Pastor Tele Opakunle
The joy of shopping to some is like the sweet savor of good wine. Package and baggage - all delights of one hasty decision to taste another forbidden fruit. Dresses, shirts, shoes, perfumes and unlimited categories of buyables. Excuse my coin word but in this era of credit cards flying all over and through the mail, it is all about all you can buy. This seems to be the story of the impulsive buyer. Like a little kid in a candy store, this individual is often devoid of the reasoning faculty. It is always a moment of so much adrenalin, which ends up in an anti-climax of frustration and regret. What was I thinking? is the idea. This habit, if not nipped in the bud introduces stress, frustration and sadness into your life. It is a cankerworm that devours. How does one get out of the rut? Here are some suggestions.
1. Stop and think before you go out on a shopping spree
2. Always make a list before you leave
3. Figure out your needs and wants
4. Eliminate your wants by their importance
5. Never take a wallet full of credit cards or money with you on your outing
6. Make a habit of allowing a day or two to pass before you stoop to conquer
7. Watch out for sale jamborees, they’re all marketing strategies.
8. When the urge is too much, walk away from temptation
9. Always think about all those unopened boxes you still have in the closet. Don’t become a hoarder!
10. Returning goods is another waste of energy and time. Resist the vicious cycle now!
Article author
About the Author
Pastor Tele Opakunle's calling as a Prophet and a Seer was established before her birth. She manifested intuitive abilities as a child. Though she emerged from an ancestry of staunch Christian believers, she has since moved beyond religion, to a higher consciousness of man’s purpose on earth. Pastor Tele is the founder of the Zion City Ministries Inc. Her focus is on empowerment. She teaches about the power within. Her message is that of “HOPE.” (Harmony, Order, Peace, and Ete
al bliss) Tele Opakunle is a Prophetic Counselor, Life Coach, and a Spiritual Activist, who fights against the desecration of the earth and its fullness.
Further reading
Further Reading
Article
The Psychic Being and Its Form of Memory
The soul remembers the essence of its spiritual development from past lifetimes, not the specifics of the external life it led in any particular lifetime.
August 14, 2026
Article
The Psychic Being and Memory of Past Lives
The psychic being has a particular type of memory needs and capacities which determines what is brought forward from one lifetime to the next and how
August 14, 2026
Article
The Awakened Conscious Soul Chooses Its Next Birth and Its Conditions, Part 1
When a psychic being is mature and awake, conscious, it can, and does, have the choice to determine the nature of its next birth. The Mother describes how this takes place.
August 8, 2026
Article
The Psychic Being and the Process of Death and Process of Rebirth
Death, Rebirth and the Role of the Soul in Determining the Process
August 5, 2026