You Have Nothing To Prove To Anyone!
Written by Rosemary Nonny Knight
Part of this wonderful journey to abundance will come with you getting angry, OH SO ANGRY, with the people who supposedly love you (And they really do), but they don’t support you.
They think you are crazy and deluded…
But they humour you…
And you can feel that they do…
Sometimes, they even worry about you…
And you can feel that they do and to you, that just sounds the same…
It sounds like they do not trust you to be able to get this thing off the ground – Whatever this thing is for you!
And then there are those who DO NOT love you and just seems to be waiting for you to fail…
And if you are anything like me with an ethnic background where black magic and such is just a normal part of life (Yep, It is weird in my world at times!), then you might even be thinking that people are praying hard against you so that you actually fail!
Whatever it is, whether they love you or not, you feel angry!
You can see that abundance is yours for the taking and so, unlike those other peeps in your world, you are playing full out to avail yourself of it and all you ask is for a little support and they cannot even give it to you!
They want you to settle for nothing…
And so, yes, you get angry…
And you start planning gout your revenge for when you are rich and famous and living the life of the wealthiest person on the planet and then you can look at these poor misguided souls and try hard not to say ‘I TOLD YOU SO’ to the ones that love you while banishing the ones that do NOT love you to some prison far, far, FAR AWAY where they can rot, with sores and pus included, in the knowledge that you did make it!
(OK, I do get carried away at times!)
And maybe you are not quite so vivid in your imaginings of how things will work out for these people who doubted you, but still they infect your brain…
It hurts to know that they do not support you…
It just hurts and it is hard not to want to prove something to them…
And yet, it is not about them…
It is about abundance.
And abundance means that even these poor misguided souls are allowed to think what they think and you do not need to let it get to you in this way.
Abundance includes a free and clear internal space as well as a wealthy and amazing exte
al space.
Abundance includes forgiveness and joy and allowing others to think what they like while deliberately recognizing that what they think does not need to affect you.
Abundance is about living and letting other live too…
No, you may not want that energy around you all the time but banishing it from your physical presence only works if you also banish it from your internal presence. NO point not seeing tehm and then spnding great wedges of time, planning evil for tem in your brain.
They still limit your abundance if you find yourself doing that.
So…
Know that you have nothing to prove to anyone
This is about more than them…
It is even about more than you…
It is about the calling oon your life…
It is about you living out a full, wealthy life because you can…
It is aboutcreating abundance for your family…
It is about fulfilling your great work so that you go to the grave knowing you did all you were tasked with doing…
It is about putting yourself to the test and seeing just how awesome you really are created to be…
It is about freedom, wealth, love, joy, happiness!
It is not about some small thinker who is just about trying to do their own thing. Why let that affect you?
Acknowledge it so that you can handle it
OK, so now you know that what they think does not matter and you have nothing to prove, let’s get your emotions around this handled.
There is areason that what they say affects you so much. And usually that reason is that, somewhere deep inside of you is a wondering if they are in fact, right.
Maybe, you are not up to the job…
Maybe, you are a little crazy for thinking that the big vision you have is possible…
Maybe you should chill out and be a norm…
Maybe you are deluded…
Maybe you are selfish…
Maybe you do not have what it takes…
So, yes, did any of those resonate?
Because even if you indignantly hide behind your thoughts of anger and sometimes, hatred for these people who think this stuff about you… The only reason why it has any power over you is because a part of you thins they might be right.
Get that part of you handled.
As I say to my princesses when they run up to me and tell me that some other lovely sister had just called them a name – I simply ask “Are you _________ (fill in the blank of that super offensive insult)? “ and they usually say ‘NO!’. I then say “Well, it does not matter than!”
And that is the truth for you too.
Of course, you are capable…
Of course, you can stay the course…
Of course, you can step into abundance…
Of course, you have what it takes…
Of course. You can deliberately design the life you want…
Of course, people want what you have…
Of course, you can learn how to promote it effectively to them…
Of course, you can fulfill your calling…
Of course, you are selfish with your time – You are on a mission and so you know where your priorities lie and they are not always the ones that other people want for you…
And mostly, honey – Of course, you have nothing to prove. Your life will tell its own story so you do not have to go out of your way to prove anything.
You just simply do the work and let all the negative energy go.
Let it go
As you start to see that your annoyance is not with those people who are just picking up on what you already kinda believe about yourself, now choose to let it go.
Turn it around to what you choose to believe about yourself and let any annoyance go. Yes, you will have to do this numerous times but so what? Do it, do it, do it! Just keep reminding yourself of who you choose to be. Your personality is not forever fixed. It is malleable and even if you have proven a bit flaky in that past, today is a great day to become a lot more resolute and relentless.
So, let it go and deliberately allow a feeling of abundance to flood through your internal bits.
You are a spiritual warrior and I see you cutting through the fog of doubt, anger and despair around you and you are walking through to the light – clean, clear and focused.
You feel more and more certain about what you are here to do and you pursue that with relentlessness, cutting off any part of you that holds you back and in this case, it is your self doubts and fears.
You let go of your baggage and you keep moving forward lighter and lighter with every step, until you get to the point where nothing anyone says to you, distracts you from your goal.
And in that moment, you realize that you have already started to live in abundance.
Fight for, deliberately design the life that you are born to live.
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