Your Love Reading for November

This is a time to take responsibility for your truest desire and follow it. Be honest with yourself about what you’re willing to do, invest, and give. Then choose. You cannot make a wrong choice—just a different one, with different consequences. When you move forward with a relationship, know that it will be based in truth and authenticity. You will have made a conscious decision rather than simply hanging on because you don’t want to be alone—or ending things because you’re afraid of the intensity of authentic connection. All roads lead to the lessons you must learn in your relationships. Regardless of the decision you make, it will place you on the path to a truer experience of the heart.

This relationship is meant to educate you about yourself. What do you need? What do you like or dislike? What values are important to you? You are in a critical phase of your relationship that is not to be dismissed or hurried. This is a time to explore the new energy that is gathering between you and another. It is not a moment for certainty but rather for discovery and curiosity.

Stubbornness is keeping you in a state of opposition. The incessant need to be right will only serve to prolong the conflict that deep down you want resolved. This is an opportune moment to learn about your values, your sense of self, what’s really important to you. Some things are nonnegotiable. Now is the time to be aware of your powerlessness to change certain situations and surrender to acceptance. Hang in there. Life will only get better. Act as if you believe that, for the only thing you can control right now is your attitude.

Thinking has its place, but trying to figure everything out in a logical manner is not going to work right now. Your conclusions will likely be faulty, and you may act upon false concepts that will get you in a jam. Give your mind a rest. Do something creative, exercise, or meditate. There are conditions brewing in your life you have no control over. Don’t fight them. Change is inevitable and is for the best, for the higher good. You will have a renewed clarity and strength to do something even better.