Your Mental Attitude Dictates Your Number of Clients AND Income
Written by Fabienne Fredrickson
“Nothing can stop the man with the right mental attitude from achieving his goal; nothing on earth can help the man with the wrong mental attitude.” -Thomas Jefferson
You may be working your tail off to market your business and yet you’re still wondering why it hasn’t “happened” yet. I’ve seen this happen thousands of times. An entrepreneur is seemingly working HARD to get clients, working like a dog to bring in some good in-come and yet, the results just aren’t showing up. It’s like fighting an uphill battle and often seems like it’s not really worth it, or worse, like something’s wrong with us.
But the real battle that’s going on isn’t with the marketing, it’s that something’s wrong on the INSIDE. If there’s a struggle on the OUTSIDE, it simply means that one exists on the INSIDE, and it’s based on our conditioning. You see, how we are conditioned affects virtually every aspect of our life: our relationships, health, finances, success, even Client Attraction.
If you’re experiencing struggle or results aren’t happening fast enough, it just means there’s an inner conflict that affects how you think and feel, as well as your beliefs and fears. It’s the battle between your conscious and your unconscious.
“When your conscious mind thinks you want something but your subconscious mind thinks you don’t deserve it (or any other limiting belief), you will fail at getting what you want. Instead you will actually attract what your subconscious feels is right for you. In order to attract what you prefer, your conscious and subconscious have to be in agreement.”-Joe Vitale
If there’s an exterior struggle, like clients not coming in fast enough or the fact that money is REALLY tight, then it means that PART of you wants something (your conscious) and PART of you doesn’t (your subconscious). The bad news is, your subconscious has veto power over your conscious, always.
The GOOD news is, once you clear the interior struggle, the results you want happen almost instantly. That’s what’s happened to me in the past year or two and continues to happen. The more I match the inside with what I “say” I want, the more opportunities come my way, the more in-come shows up and the easier it all is. And I mean really easy. (And before you start going “there”, just remember that I’m no different than you. Once you work on your own Inner Game of Client Attraction, you too can experience the same results.)
It’s not about working harder! If you want different results, you must change your subconscious beliefs and get clear on the fears that are not congruent with what you SAY you want. Here’s a few of the hundreds that I’ve come up with, based on a survey I did:
* “They won’t pay for this”
* “I don’t know enough”
* “If I get bigger, they’ll find out I’m a fraud”
* “I’m a failure”
* “If I get too many clients, I’ll get overwhelmed”
* “I’m not worth it”
* “I can’t have it all”
* “My expertise is common sense”
* Etc.
If this is what’s going on in your subconscious, you’re essentially driving with the parking brake on, and we’ve got to do something about that if you want to begin seeing different results. Otherwise, you’ll continue to push really hard, work REALLY hard and not see the results you say you want.
Your Assignment:
If you want to succeed, get rid of this GUNK and SLUDGE inside. The key is to become AWARE of your which fears and subconscious beliefs are sabotaging you on a daily basis, like some of the ones listed above. Once you’re clear on them, figure out where they came from, process them and then release them. This will immediately change your behaviors, increase your in-come and new opportunities will start showing up, ones that you never expected. You’ll wonder why you struggled for so long.
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