Your Voice & Dating Tips

When we don’t speak our minds, there’s a silent scream on the inside. It can be a peep or as loud as a lion… but there is a scream. We know that something should or could be different, but we say or do nothing. Our silent screams are our souls way of asking us to wake up to our truth. This is our intuition.

Our intuition is our ‘inner GPS’ that helps us navigate life.

In our day to day living, we’re constantly tested as to whether or not we need to speak up or if it’s the moment for our inside voice. The intuition lingers for our acknowledgment.

When we seek to acknowledge this beast of a beauty - intuition - it becomes our best friend in all aspects of life.

Intuition is not a feeling, it is a knowing. Meditation, Tai Chi and Reiki, for example, are excellent ways of cultivating strong intuition.

In relationships and dating, this inner GPS is invaluable. A practical example: If you’re at a restaurant and your date suddenly shares that they’re interested in going back to their place, know that they’re probably not interested in playing a game of Scrabble. Take a note that now you’ll be alone with them in their home which is not a powerful place for you necessarily, should things get out of hand. Depending on what you want out of the date that evening, you might not take that invitation. Also understand that non-verbal cues are not effective when becoming sexual and hormones are turned up. Hormones are powerful. Ask any doctor worth their salt. If you don’t want to engage in a sexual moment with a partner, it is best to actually, SAY so. “No, thank you, I’m going home.” Do not be afraid of offending them. You must take care of yourself. You’re all you’ve got. Furthermore, if they were raised right, they’ll respect you for empowering yourself.

You were given a gift of intuition, and a voice to utilize with great power and thoughtfulness. This will guide you to your best matches in life and in love.