Alisa Goodwin Snell
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Alisa Goodwin Snell Quick Facts
Alisa Goodwin Snell is a dating coach like none other. With sixteen years of experience as a licensed marriage and family therapist, she knows what singles need to do (and not do) to find success (and to avoid disaster).
Alisa has been a frequent guest on television programs, including Good Morning America NOW, ABC4, KUTV, KSL, and KJZZ and has been interviewed on radio programs such as Good Morning America Radio, Family Net Radio, The Mark and Brian Show, and more. Click here to view or listen to these interviews: http://itsyourtechnique.com/about-utahs-dating-coach/#tv.
Alisa is the author of Dating Game Secrets for Marrying a Good Man and writes weekly dating advice and blogs for singles at http://ItsNotYou-ItsYourTechnique.com.
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Break the too-nice trap
A good man . . . Single women often say they want one. Few believe they can find one. Those who don’t have one usually insist that they do. And many more dismiss one without a thought. Not surprisingly, many good men consider giving up their nice-guy image after repeated rejections that usually end with the woman they like dating a jerk, liar, cheater, or beater. Why do women complain that they can’t find a good guy when they are passing one up? And what does a good guy do about it? 5 must-know steps for breaking the too-nice trap:
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Chemistry--What is it and how do I recognize it?
I define chemistry as “the feeling or desire that compels you, when in the presence of a particular person, to want to please them, touch them, and make them happy.” That’s it! Too many singles associate chemistry with the desperate feelings, longing, and compulsive thoughts that are actually a common sign of insecure attachments or addictive, abusive, or manipulative relationships.
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Un-lucky in love?
Not dating? Haven’t been in a relationship for a long time? Don’t know why? It’s sounds too simple, but it’s true—you probably do not look men in the eyes and smile—a real smile! Not just that dry, half turned-up smile you greet fellow co-workers with as you glance up from your work project. A real smile. One that says, “I like you.” One with warmth, charm, or even a coy grin. You can do it. Flirting is a must if you are going to date. Blind dates don’t come around very often. You need to do more if you are going to find lasting love.
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Liars, cheaters, manipulators, beaters--Spot them in 3 dates or less
Single men and women are vulnerable to the risks of exploitation, deception, infidelity, stalking, and abuse, especially if they don’t know the early warning signs. With statistics that range from 20 to 60 percent of partner’s cheating during a relationship or marriage,** and reports stating that approximately 1.3 million women and 835,000 men are physically assaulted by an intimate partner, and 1,006,970 women and 370,990 men are stalked annually in the United States,*** singles need all the information they can get to increase their odds for recognizing manipulation and avoiding abuse.r
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Confidence Matters
“It’s not you—It’s your technique.” This is one of the first things I teach singles. It is core to my coaching program and essential to your success in the dating game. To grasp the significance of this principle and how it can increase your confidence, you need to understand the following: 1. Your situation does not define your value Too often singles base their perceptions of themselves on the acceptance or rejection of others, which causes their self-confidence to plummet over and over again. The truth is:
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Popular dating-coach quotes:
It's not you - it's your technique.
Don't give the best of you to those who don't invest in you.
Love is deeply connected to sacrifice.
Contacting Alisa Goodwin Snell
To contact Alisa, call (801) 447-6000 or visit the contact page on ItsNotYou-ItsYourTechnique.com.
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To learn more about Alisa's dating coach programs and philosophies, visit ItsNotYou-ItsYourTechnique.com or call (801) 447-6000.
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Workshops, Dating Boot Camps, and the Make It Happen Singles Cruise are also available through ItsNotYou-ItsYourTechnique.com.