Allan Hardman
Toltec Master ("The Four Agreements"), Author, Clinical Hypnotherapist
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Allan Hardman is a relationship coach, author, teacher, and Toltec Master, trained by Miguel Ruiz in the tradition The Four Agreements. He teaches in Sonoma County, CA, and guides “Jou eys of the Spirit” to sacred sites and tropical beaches in Mexico and beyond. He is the author of The Everything Toltec Wisdom Book, and co-author of two books with Deepak Chopra and others. For information about his work with The New Relationship, spiritual coaching, jou eys, and to subscribe to his free e-newsletter, visit:www.joydancer.com. Or call (707) 528-1271. E-mail comments: allan@joydancer.com.
Quotes from Allan's students and fans:
The ways you teach me are truly magical and divine. I am so grateful . . . M.D.P. Vermont
Your presence is transformative. S.H., Pasadena, CA
My gratitude for you is immense. F.B., Switzerland
Any opportunity to work with Allan is a precious gift to yourself. K.D., Califo ia
I love to read your words so much . I.F, Prague, Czech Republic
You continue to be an expression of Truth, and Beauty, and Inspiration to me. V.B, Hawaii
I am so grateful for your wise advice, Allan. C.C., Ontario, Canada.
Each time I see you I am more and more impressed by the way you deliver your message straight from your heart to each of ours. When I laugh at your humor, it seems to open up something inside of me, and I can feel healing taking place. Your talks stay with me day after day, as I remember what you said and share that with others. C.R., Santa Rosa, CA
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Real Tips for Saving Your Marriage
I have been counseling couples for many years. It’s a passion of mine, watching the magic that happens when intimacy is restored to a marriage. When you embrace a commitment with someone, especially a commitment that you expect to last a lifetime, there is a good possibility you will both bring with you expectations and unspoken agreements that have the potential to cause misunderstandings or hurt in your relationship.
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The Lie of Love
Could it be possible that we were lied to about love? I think so. I think we have been taught a big lie about Love. To understand the origin of the lie, we need to go back to a time, not too long ago, in a place, not so very far away. That is the time you were a small child. In that time not ...
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The Challenge of Intimacy
Probably the biggest challenge to those of us wanting to live conscious spiritual lives in these rapidly transforming times is the changing form and expectations of romantic courtship, relationship, and marriage. The traditional models are rapidly disappearing, and the foundation for new forms ...
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Emotional Intimacy with Ourselves
One of my apprentices often called me, upset because there were no “good men” out there. She had been in so many relationships, she said, waiting for a man that would be present and show his feelings. She told me that she was often fooled, thinking a particular man wanted to share with her in a ...
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Relationships Created from Needs
I have been playing with the idea that we create all of our relationships based on the needs they fill. It is not a very romantic notion, but I invite you to read, ponder with me, and let me know what you think. I am thinking of all relationships—romances, friendships, family, strangers, with ...
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Five Ways to Avoid Intimacy
When an apprentice called me to tell me his wife was thinking about leaving him, he was mystified about what more she could want from him. He worked hard, supported her so she could be a stay-at-home Mom, he mowed the lawn, and kept the oil changed in the car. He was always busy with tasks and ...
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Love is in the Air
I am writing this from my winter home in Chacala, Nayarít, Mexico. The moon is full, hanging softly overhead in a warm tropical night sky. I can hear the ocean waves caressing the sandy beach, and mariachi music is playing in the distance. What could be more romantic?? In fact, this scenario is ...
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The New Relationship ~ Five Agreements to Make Love Come True
Many people in our current world are awakening to realize that the old reasons for marriage and relationship no longer serve them. All relationships are based on agreements. In the past, these agreements have been mostly unconscious and unspoken. I offer these five agreements as a step towards a new model for conscious relationships of all kinds, based on a more spiritual understanding of our place in the universe and our relationships with each other. I call it The New Relationship.
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The Impotent Hero
Romantic relationship has been both a blessing and nightmare for many people in this new millennium. In the past, the rules of relationship were relatively structured and well enforced by families and cultures. Many relationships were based on the need for security and financial well-being in an uncertain world. Often, mates were chosen based on others' expectations, class, race, or religious backgrounds.r
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Being an Adult
I’ve been kicking around the idea of “being an adult” with my apprentices in TACO, my online apprenticeship program. What does it actually mean to be an adult—to really be “grown up,” and no longer simply pretending to be?
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A Prayer for Today
Divine Presence, be with me today, reminding me of your love for me. . . your love without conditions, your love without expectations, your love without obligations. Help me to learn to love myself the way You love me. Help me to love and accept myself, without reservations and without doubt. Help me to know that you are not outside of me, but are the living truth of who I AM. Let me remember my Divine Essence, and know it as You. Help me to love all of Life, and to see You therein, reflected back to me. In this moment, I know that there is nowhere in this Universer
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Living Softly in Hard Times
I read somewhere that relationships are increasingly stressed during these “hard times” we are passing through. I am not surprised. With all the bad news in the media, and the fear it creates, most individuals are stressed. And maybe you have noticed, it is individuals who make up most relationships! In my writing, I mostly address the issues of romantic relationships, however, it is valuable to remember that every form of relationship is affected by the stresses of life—relationships in love, business, friends, parent/ child, child/parent, and strangers on the street.
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Allan Hardman @ Joydancer.com
Continuing the tradition of Miguel Ruiz and The Four Agreements, Joydancer is a web site and a community devoted to creating personal freedom and joy in all aspects of our lives.
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ToltecOnline.com
The TACO community is an online spiritual and social networking resource, created to provide you with an interactive community and transformational learning experience.
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Favorite Quotes & Thoughts from Allan Hardman
"Live Passionately Without Attachment to the Outcome" --Allan Hardman
"You can never be good enough by proving you are" -- Allan Hardman
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How to get started
You can work with Allan individually in person, on the phone, or Skype, in a group, or on a journey to the pyramids or a tropical beach in Mexico. To learn more about how to get started, visit the webpage, http://www.joydancer.com/study_wallan/index.html.
Learn more about Allan's Online Toltec Community at http://tolteconline.com/
Subscribe to Allan's "Weekly Word and News" e-newsletter: http://www.joydancer.com/Newsletter/
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Living in Conscious Relationship: A Valentine's Week Retreat for Couples and Singles
Every Valentine's Week, February 10 ~ 14.
At the tropical beach village of Chacala, Nayarit, Mexico
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