Benny Gilbet
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Hi! My name is Brenton Gilbet (pronounced Gil-bay). Most people just call me "Benny" for short. Ever since that point in grade school when all the guys decided to start treating the girls nice for a change (not conincedentally, "cooties" were seemingly eradicated from our school around the same time), I've made it my passion to figure out why we as men and women like, love, and even lust after each other. Since then, I've gone on to expand my field of knowledge from behavioral psychology to begin covering other fields such as physiology, sociology, even chemistry. My goal is to come up with some type of "global understanding" of relationship dynamics and human sexuality, and then be able to communicate what I've found to the common man or woman.
Most recently, I've been helping the staff at prematureejaculation.org to get research and aggregate a lot of information, and as a result, the website is currently being revamped with new research and information. Consequently, a lot of my writing will be about the subject of satisfaction in the bedroom, as that's what's on my mind these days. Hope you enjoy what I have to say!
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What Causes Early Ejaculation?
What is 'premature ejaculation'? The 4th Edition of the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual (DSM-IV), describes premature ejaculation as "...the recurrent or persistent start of ejaculation and orgasm with minimal sexual stimulation before, on, or right after penetration and before the person wishes it." It's labeled a mental health issue when it creates difficulties or causes emotional problems inside a relationship.
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The High Cost of Performance Anxiety in the Bedroom
It's well known that worry, stress, and anxiety contribute negatively to premature ejaculation. In addition to the degeneration of the feeling of control, when a man is "uptight," his love will usually perceive it. If she then starts to stress about his anxiety, she is prone to have issues with her own relaxation, arousal, or orgasm. Stress and anxiety in the bedroom is contagious and it is a significant cause of lovers avoiding stressful sexual activities. After all, sex is supposed to be pleasurable and relaxing - not unsatisfying and tense.
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The Myth of Perfect Sexual Control
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Home Remedies for Premature Ejaculation
Since the causes behind premature ejaculation are typically not due to a medical condition, home remedies can be an effective method of treatment. Continue reading to find out how you can help your partner solve this problem with simple techniques and natural mixtures. Room For Two
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Learning to Last Longer: Relax. The Journey is its Own Reward.
Premature ejaculation affects not only you but your partner as well. Feelings of anger and resentment can arise from continued unsatisfying sexual encounters. The good news is that this does not have to be a permanent problem. Read on and learn what you (and your partner) can do to improve your sexual relationship The Basics
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You Say 'Super Man', I Say 'Minute Man': Establishing a Threshold for Premature Climax
The term "Premature Ejaculation" is something which can strike fear into the heart of almost any man. But what exactly does this phrase mean? How do you know for sure whether or not you suffer from this condition? And what can you do about fixing (or at least treating) it? Upon a closer examination of the term, pinpointing a definition for premature ejaculation is more difficult than you might think.
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Paying Attention to Your Spouse/Lover
Most romantic arrangements have in common a space of time and a partner's full positive attention. Attention first of all. Call your partner during the day. Let each other know you care. When you come home from work, after you've allowed yourself half an hour or so for practical matters, sit down and talk. Sit down and listen. Pay more attention to what your partner is saying than to what you want to reply. "What did you do today?" Listen supportively while your partner clears away the day's debris. Until the debris is cleared away, you can't come together emotionally.
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When A Sensitive Man Isn't A Good Thing
Did you know that in many ancient cultures, the intense pleasure of sex was considered as a spiritual experience? For some men, that same intense pleasure is not a lasting or experience because it really is "too much". Today, we're taking a brief look at the role physical sensitivity plays in a man's sexual experience.
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The best sex education for kids is when Daddy pats Mommy on the fanny when he comes home from work.
~William H. Masters
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